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  • My mother decided yesterday to stop paying my car and health insurance. The money is not the real issue here, I believe she is doing it out of spite, because I moved in with my boyfriend. She has been using these things as a ploy to get me to move back in with her, which I will not do. How can I get her to stop lecturing me about my living situation? She does it every time I see her and it's making me miserable.
  • If she doesn't want you to be with him that badly, then there is probably a good reason.
  • tell her how u feel and explain to her what no matter what your going to do what you like and you understand her consern and want but you have to be on ur own. tel her u will always be there an that u will always need her but u need to do this for u!
  • Accept that she is no longer willing to pay for your car and health insurance, and find a way to pay those things yourself. Let her know that it hurts you that she cannot accept your living situation, but that you still love her. Let her know that you would like to see her, and talk to her, but only if she can keep her opinions to herself. It sounds like she is saying to you, "If you are old enough to move in with your boyfriend, you are old enough to pay your own bills". Show her that you are responsible enough to do so, and perhaps she will change her tune.

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