From http://www.the knot.com No she does not and no it is not normal. Nowhere in the following list of duties for a JUNIOR bridesmaid does it say they are supposed to help pay for the bridal shower (see third item in description). In the bridesmaid duties description, however, it does say that they are to pay for, co-host, etc. the bridal shower (not printed here, visit the above link for detail on bridesmaid duties). A girl (typically aged 9 to 14) who is too old to be a flower girl and too young to be a full-fledged bridesmaid can join up as a junior bridesmaid. Younger members of the bridal party often treat their roles with great seriousness and love to get in on the action. Here are some of the junior bridesmaid's traditional duties: -Wear a dress similar (or the same) in color and style to the bridesmaids', plus a matching corsage (or bouquet). -Walk down the aisle in the procession, and stand at the altar/stage along with the other attendants. -While junior bridesmaids are not expected to give showers, they should plan to attend and help out with clean up, favor making, and more. -Attend the ceremony rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. -Hand out programs at the ceremony or bubbles, confetti, rice, and other send-off props afterwards. -Help out the ushers by seating guests. -At bride's request, go wedding gown shopping and give input (especially if the junior bridesmaid is a sister or daughter). -Write to the bride and her parents to thank them for including her. -Stand in the receiving line, if requested by the bride. If the junior bridesmaid is the bride's own child, here are some special activities to make her feel even more a part of the festivities: -Escort the bride down the aisle and stand with her at the altar. -Read a poem (perhaps one that she wrote or chose herself) or other passages. -Does she play an instrument, dance, or sing? Perform during the ceremony. -Participate in a "family vows" exchange: After the couple swaps marriage vows, the kids gather around. The groom then pledges to take care of the bride's children, and the bride promises to take care of his.