Were you sexually abused as a child? if so how did you cope? deal? get through it?
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Still coping, still finding out things that happend to me.
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I was sexually abused by at least one of my mom's boyfriends - and with her permission! She said that I WILL respect my elders and demanded I follow the guy into the bathroom as he requested. How sick she was.
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i sexually abused as a child... how will i be tried?
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I was, some traumatic events wipe from memory. I've talked to therapists and I am fine for a 55 year old man/pumpkin
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yes. i didnt do anything really to cope, the best thing i did that made me feel better was talk to my sister about it cause i almost felt like it had never happened and after me and her talked about it it was just a matter of time before i learned to idk, get over it
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No, I was not, but am helping my daughter cope with this. The first thing we did was put his ass in jail. (80yrs) Then some counseling to see where her head was at. Now it's been 2 yrs and she is doing well, although a couple of times she has come to me with more information and concerns about wether he will ever get out. The most important thing i would say is first to make sure that the abuse has stopped. You shouldn't try to push the thoughts or memories away, because as much as one wants them to disappear, the more you try to ingore the events the more they will haunt you. Just allow the thought to "be" and then let them go. The counselor we went to agreed 100% with this way of doing things. She said to keep in mind that little thoughts may come and go at the most random times but they do go if you let them. I've also taught my daughter that see is no longer a victim, she has and will continue to survive. I will not allow one worthless bastsrd to decide her fate in life. That would be my failure in my life.
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My name is Nkki i am hear to get answer for my 6 year ols son.I found out that his dad was touching him.I am at a lose he is going throw sooo much.He has bad anger.I need to know how to help him please some one help me . Thank You Nikki
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if i was i have no recollection of it... thankfully... that was an easy way to get through it for me!
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No, not in the slightest.
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I was abused at the age of 5 and up until the age of 11.. this may sound weird but i blanked it out of my memory.. i spoke to noone about it.. (not even my mother) i went through a depressed stage but that didnt last long at all. i have no hate for the man who did it and i am just living a normal life.. all i wanted to do was move on and forget and i did just that..
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Have a long history of it. The way I found to cope with it was just to become very very violent. Being sexually abused as a boy is different than for a girl. For a man, it's about losing your power to the extreme. Being able to tear another human being apart with my hands is what helped me reclaim what was taken from me.
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Yes. I had to go through somehow.
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