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  • How old are you? I feel like maybe he is getting more mature. How long have you been together? Do you both feel the same way between each other? Have you been fighting? There are so many things there could be. Maybe its time to take it to the next level. If you ever have kids, Do you want to talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend the same way you would to your child. Good luck though. I wish the best for you!!
  • Thank you so much for answering... I am 20 and he is 21, we've been together almost 2 years. We often fight about really stupid things, like I'll tell him he isn't being nice to me and he will get mad... it's usually stuff that shouldn't be an issue. I know how childish it sounds that I want him to talk like that to me, but I don't know why it means so much and why I'm so upset. :[ He probably wants to feel more like a "man" and wants to be himself instead of baby talk. I can totally understand that but at the same time I want him to do it. It must be really embarrassing for him, but it's just between us. It shouldn't be a big deal for him.
  • It may not be that he doesn't love you anymore, it may be the oppsite. Maybe he thinks its time that your relationship moves forward and becomes more serious and he associates the "baby talk" with a slightly imature and childish relationship rather than a grown up, adult one. Expecting him to treat you like a baby and talk to you in a baby voice after being together for 2 years would probably wear any man down, it does seem a little immature for your age. This is only my opinion and you would be better trying to talk it through with him. good luck
  • Dont get depressed....It always starts like that in the begining of a relationship. You too are over the "hunny-moon stage" and this is a time you really discover who that person is and decide if that person is who you like or he likes. We all go through it. Its a weird but natural part of a relationship. Things are always better in the begining. If you dont like who he is you need to sit down and talk to him about the way you feel and if that still doesnt make a difference he was not meant for you and you have to find someone will make you feel good. I hope things work out... jo~jo
  • Just say, look "Honey, baby, sugar lips, I need to to do this for me, it makes me feel loved and secure, would you please, do it for me"???? Life is about compromise, you have certain needs, just has he has, give and take. Anonymous, Pick your battles, save the fighting, for when it is really important to you, stop and ask yourself, do I want to be right, or do I want to be happy.
  • Im in the exact same postion, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and everything was so great at the beginning we were insperable. I know we all get older and mature of course! But i just now feel like hes not as interested and would rather brag too me about what he has done with his mates than talk about stuff between us. I have loads of friends, but never make him feel like he is second best because he is my best friend. I sometimes get very low about things in life from a not great past, but he never listens and gets angry with me saying just move on. He told me he cant handle other peoples problems, which makes me soo upset because i confide in him for TLC. I just dont know what too do anymore, cause we are so good together yet he is soo selfish :(
  • How old are you and how long have you been together?

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