Do not ask her directly, show some vidios and see how she reciprocate.

There is nothing worse in our sexually repressed culture than to have an imaginative sense of arousal. The stranger something is, the more it contrasts our norms, the less likely we are to accept it. But, there is a good chance that there is someone out there who will be interested in what you are. There is no guarantee your partner is that person though. My advice is to sit down, talk to her candidly about it and be prepared for the possibility that she may reject you. Just realize that if she does, she wasn't the person for you in the first place. And you won't be the first or last person to face rejection due to a sexual fetish. But at least you can be proud of yourself for having the courage to do the adult thing and communicate your desires.

Depends on how close your relationship is. If you have mutual trust, and would also consider her a friend, then you can probably find a way to bring up the subject of sexual role-play. Do it in a non-confrontational way. Do NOT say something like "I'm really stressed out because you don't make up any fantasies to liven things up. Is something wrong with our sex life?" DO say something like "I was on the internet the other day, and there was this bit about Madonna playing fantasy games with her boyfriend. What do you think about that?" Then maybe "Have you ever wondered what it would be like to make up a kind of game, and act out some crazy fantasy?" Take the cues from there. They say everyone has fantasies, everyone has imagination, everyone likes a little excitement... but most of us don't act on the socially unacceptable ones like rape or being raped. Many don't even take the chance with harmless fantasies, and ask for what they want, for fear of rejection. So we have a booming porn business out there, and frustrated relationships. So sound out your partner's level of comfort with the general idea of fantasy play, then suggest something "safe" as a first experiment. She may never have done this kind of "adult entertaining" and maybe doesn't think she looks as good as the pros. Can't say, I don't know her. I just know a lot of us women have body image problems - call them insecurities. No, no, don't "introduce" porn into the relationship to teach her anything. Not only is it possible to see those people as "competition", but it is erotic infidelity - cheating with the eyes and imagination. Some say porn helps them, but from a counselor's point of view I have to disagree on it supporting a healthy relationship for a couple. By safe fantasy, I mean like the French Maid outfit, and a romantic interlude, with you in a suitable outfit too. Leading up to ...whatever. Agree ahead of time what you are both willing to do in the fantasy world you make up. Maybe a whole body massage and no actual intercourse, just learning to be intimate without performance demands on either of you. Just trust and mutual pleasure. Whatever. Can you be satisfied with a few of your wishes, if she's not comfortable fulfilling all of them? (and with time, as in months, she might reconsider) Weird is in the eye of the beholder. I like the word "different" better. It's not a label. Good luck, and play safe.