How do I get a christian Godly boy to like me when I'm not anything like that?
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Barbie Doll
ANSWERS: 10
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Do you like him just because of his looks or his personality too? If it's both, then if you change him, you will loose his good personality. The only way to successfully do this is to change yourself. Make yourself more attractive both socially and spiritually. If he's really a decent Christian, he'll be able to tell if you're faking it.
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Start by asking him about his religion.
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Good luck with that. Your best bet is to become like that yourself. If you like it in him, maybe you'd like it in yourself too. Otherwise, maybe he's not really for you.
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If he really is a true christian who loves God he wants a godly woman to be his girlfriend/wife. Don't think he is "intolerant" if he doesn't like you because you don't have the same religion, he just is doing what is right. So, you pretty much need to be a christian to get him. But you can't just start going to church and say you are a christian if you aren't. You will really have to be sincere. And that probably won't happen if you just do it for this guy. You need to love God more than him. Trust me.
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if you are not like him, then the answer to your problem is to become more like him. Before you do this, ask yourself if it makes you happy to do this. I have seen many attempt this, including myself. All it brings in the end is unhappiness. All we can really be is true to who we are. Any thing less than that brings unhappiness. Love does not change everything.
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Couldn't tell you this one. I would say, "he's probably very focused on serving the Lord full heartedly and he probably needs someone in his life that's headed the same direction."
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You do it by changing and becoming someone he would be attracted to, someone who he can enjoy and long to be with.
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I wouldn't recommend playing around in that field if you are not Christian. Seriously. Whatever you do, please do not fake that you're Christian. When you love someone, you want what is best for them. If you're going to trample on his faith in order to get him, you are not truthfully doing what is best for him. I used to consider myself Christian and I had a second boyfriend who acted perfect around me. Oh, and boy was I surprised when I found out he wasn't religious at all. If you're not Christian and he actually loves God, then forget about it.
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You just said a mouthful. Either you want him, physically & selfishly,...lor you notice something about him that is what you want, admire, etc., spiritually. If the former, please care enough to not hate him with your selfishness. If the latter, then maybe you are hungering for God, in which case, God is Whom you really are needing to pursue (at least, first).
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Are you sure he wouldn't like you? What have you done that might make him not like you. That's where you start. Change the things you can and be open about the things you can't.
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