ANSWERS: 12
  • Honestly, theres nothing wrong with having friends outside of a relationship. In fact it's quite healthy. So what if he was talking to a friend on the phone? Even if she is a woman, as long as it isn't going anywhere than whats the problem?
  • He is living with you. He came home to you. He is just talking to her on the phone. I don't see the problem here. Late at night is still not a big deal, since he is in YOUR house, not hers. If you keep being a pain about this, you might find yourself living alone again.
  • Here. Check out this answer I gave a little while ago about that kind of thing: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2053490
  • your just jealous and thats not a good start to any relationship ...and your jealousy will kill this one very quickly , nothing wrong with either sex having friends of the opposite sex ...nothing at all if fact its very healthy and very worth while and I'll bet they were friends before you came into his life so my advise is to grow up and get over it before he gets over you
  • I've been there. My ex had someone that he texted and spoke to on the phone every night. I found out accidentally actually. Turns out he's been cheating on me, so I got rid of him. It hurt, but I valued myself more than to make a relationship with someone who violated my trust work. Try to investigate a little more on this lady.
  • your not married.I keep my girls that are friends until i tie the knot. then i devote myself to one woman.
  • If you're really this upset, get off answer bag, get a f***ing backbone and kick his a** to the curb now before you annoy him into the arms of this girl. Although my guess is he's already cheating with her. So you still need to do what I said. It'll save on the pain later. Cut his sorry cheating a** loose now.
  • He moved in with YOU. It's your home. If he doesn't understand about being loyal, especially when he's in your home that you are sharing, then maybe he needs to move back out until he's ready for a real relationship, one that doesn't include his being friends with other women.
  • Hes getting mad for a reason, guilty! Drop him like a bad habit, you must be able to sacrifice some things when your in love,real love, and THAT girl is one of those things.You shouldnt live with someone if you dont love them it just causes problems...he seems like a snake to me. Just think of it in his eyes you gotta think like a cheating asshole to find out the truth sometimes ya kno? Why tha hell you let him move in with YOU anyway? hope hes not living OFF you otherwise hes just got his cake and eating it too. And by the way...you should be the one to occupy those late night hours not her. think about it! dont be foolish OK ?!?!?!??!
  • I see a Problem. I think its kind of disrespectful. I mean its ok for him to be on the phone, but when your living together, You are there with him. If it was me, id get even, id get myself a Night-talking buddy too! :]
  • In similar situation. Have you told him it bothers you? I've discussed it with mine, he understands but says he won't stop having close friendships with friends (who are 90% women). At least I know where I stand but he was on phone every night with her, I would flip out! Tell him to stop this now! mine has made a compromise to get me more involved with his friends so I don't feel left out and they get the picture that he is with ME! Also says he will try seem less flirty with them. Your man may be just friends with her BUT he needs to help you out by making a compromise. Would you feel better if they chatted during the day and less often for example? meet him 1/2 way but make sure you meet her so she sees him as NOT single. Why not ask her over for dinner and be the best girlfriend you can infront of her and show her how happy you guys are? maybe if she IS interested she will then back off ;-)
  • My boyfriend does not hang out with any girls alone anymore because he knows it makes me feel uncomfortable. If he really respects you and values you he will understand and give up this girl if she isn't more important to him than you. If hes getting mad and defending this you need to stand up. I'd say fine its either me or her. If you really love me then this should be easy. I really don't understand how some people could possible think it would be okay. In this age men have lost complete respect for women.

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