ANSWERS: 7
  • You dont love her because she's hurting you and isn't nice. Even though you are a guy this is still abuse and you need to remove yourself from the relationship. It will be hard but you'll look back and be glad you got out.
  • Be honest. Gentle, but honest. Tell her that you have enough respect for her to tell her the truth about not being in love with her, so that she can have the time to heal and get on with her life. It is much less painful for her to know your real feelings, than to be lied to and led on for years like some people do. Good luck to both of you.
  • Break up with her. Don't be a jerk about it, but if you don't love her then that's not fair to either one of you. You have to consider your own feelings as well as hers.
  • I'm kind of curious how she's treating you badly, but you don't have to tell me if you don't want to. Why should you stay with her if you're not happy? It would only hurt you both more in the long run.
  • Have you ever confronted her about treating you badly? It always hurts to hurt someone else's feelings but if you're not in love anymore and you want to explore other relationships then I'd go for it. The best thing for the both of you would be to break up, unless of course the love can be rekindled if she changes her ways. Being "in love" and "loving" someone are two entirely different entities. Mention this to her, it's evident you feel love for her, otherwise you wouldn't be feeling the way you feel right now. Always remember two things "all is fair in love and war" AND "it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." Part, and if you reunite somewhere down the road then it's meant to be. Hopefully she's not one of those nuts who will try to sabotage your new relationship. Good Luck!
  • Sounds like you want her as a friend. You could tell her that.
  • well shes gna hurt either way but if u dnt tell her and keep it from her is the wrst thing u could do trust me i no if u dnt feel a lil bit of love 4 her u never really did becuase love just doesnt go away!

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