Just Be Yourself

No you shouldn't look up to those girls on TV and magazines. Why? Because they're the same as you. Believe me, guys like natural-looking girls.

I wouldnt, The xhoice is yours, My guy likes me for me.. If I was one one of those fake croads they show in magazines he wouldn't want anything to do with me.. He doesn't even like it if I put on make up.

No in my book, girls give themselves there own "hotness." I mean i like a girl that is a pleasant person to be around, they talk to you, and respect you. You are equals, laugh together. Outward appearances dont affect me that much!

I have found that a good personality will win boys over AND keep them. So maybe look up to people who are like that and try to emulate them. Dont worry about girls on tv or magazines. Thats not the real world.

no never why look up to an image they are not people you truly know they only represent what they are selling you look up to people in your family or your teachers or even yourself if you got it going on thrive on you nobody can be you like you so do a good job of believing and loving yourself and invest in you build on your self esteem by telling yourself the good about about you every morning best wishes to you

Dont you know yet?? All guys want a girl just like their Mum ;P

One of the worst magazines that so many girls read is Cosmo. The articles seem to be written for brain dead women. Like the only thing a woman's priority should be is being great in bed for her man. That's important if he's a special guy, but geez . . . it goes on and on in that vein. I can't avoid seeing the articles as it's at the check out in the market. I think guys want a real girl. They may look at the "fantasy" girls just like we may look at Johnny Depp or whomever, but we don't actually expect to have him or a duplicate.

u know what? those girls are actually just like you (but probably not so interesting to talk to and b*tchier) because all they see everywhere is AIRBRUSHED!!! images of themselves and see themselves as 'perfect' (even though personally i dont see them as perfect)...i recommend every single girl download a trial version of a digital retouching program and retouch your own face! it takes 5 mins with an amateur program and you look like a doll completely transformed (teeth straight and white, lips plump and added expression, eyes brighter and uaully changed to blue =S, face slimmed and softened, nose perfected, eyebrows shaped, eye shape made more even and 'sexy expression' put into your eyes, hair thicker and usually blonder, skin flawless and tanned!) if you can do that in 5 mins with a crappy downloaded trial JUST imagine what they do in the holywood world to make all the women "perfect"...honestly...they are no better than you! probably wounldnt even turn heads in real life. dont look up to that. any man with a decent brain will know they are completely fake images! if you are beautiful inside you will come across as even more beautiful on the outside so concentrate on that. and dont listen to anyone stupid 'types' if they go on about the 'perfect image' its because they are insecure...real people know the truth. i bet you have more to ofer than anyone in any magazine! and i bet your hotter anyway in many peoples eyes. bacause all they are staring at is a flat page with a doll like fake image

oh and another thing- they are airbrushed in movies and tv too! perfect example is on a skin product ad where the skin will have pimples (barely because that still isnt the real them, its just airbrushed more lightly) then the screen is wiped over or water is splashed on her face as she emerges FLAWLESS with no pimples, pores, freckles, porcelain skin, bright eyes, perfect hair etc etc. digital retouching at its best. it took me ages to fully understand this and now i do i want every single girl to know she is just as perfect as any movie star or girl in a magazine because they are just normal girls that get transformed to be super women so that magazines will sell because girls will think this is what they have to look like. just love you for you and you'll attract people that live in the real world rather than their fantasy world x

Most every guy I met has liked girls who wore hardly any make-up at all. They want real, because anything more makes them feel less worthy to even be attached to the girl.

please dont look up to those girls they might look perfect in magazines or wot eva but without the airbrushing, make-up, highlights n hair dyes there just the same as us they wake up with bed hair and morning breath (yuk lol) they still get spots and all the stuff we get boys dnt get it sumtimes that we are all the same in different ways. i bet your bootyful so dnt fuss bout these superficial gals.

No. You should be yourself. Take this line to heart: "I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not." - Kurt Cobain

Only admire those with good hearts and minds everything else is temporary and mostly fake.

It's upto you.As far as I know none of my friends have hooked up with any TV girls.If you are luckier then you may try it.

Am I going to be the only one who is honest here? Girls on TV and on the cover of magazines are (or are made to appear) attractive, confident, and sucessful. That is exactly what most men want. In that order. As far as looking up to them, nah. I have found the best way to be attractive is to love yourself first. I personally am totally in love with myself and somehow everyone else follows suit....

I think most of them just look fake, and not really pretty either, the few girls I've liked, and thought were pretty, look nothing like that. Well, I guess two of them did.

A lot of female answers!!! I like to LOOK at those girls in the ads..etc.But to live with one?or date one?NO,I wouldn't feel comfort knowing that they are 'high maintenance'. I have dated a suntanning model,she was all that and then some,,all eyes were drawn to her body,smile,personality too!I couldn't have been happier,till the newness wore off and I began to see the 'defects' in the 'too high on the pedestal' concept I had(much less the attitudes she had for herself) I like self confidence,reliability,honesty,dedication to a committed relationship.Can I get that from a pretty picture?Does that nice body have any heart? Some women are made to look at(High maintenance)MOST women are human,have feelings,will be there for you emotionally,and share time with as equals,not for you to drool over and pander to. I'll take the self assured,confident,self made,independent,has her own money,isn't too clingy,dirty,down to earth,gets her fingernails filled with grit from doing real work,kind of girl any day,over those in th magazines.Period.