ANSWERS: 8
  • There is no reason to feel ugly or like a loser just because you haven't had a boyfriend yet. the right one just hasn't come along yet. At 12 yrs old, you should be concentrating on having fun with your group of friends and not worrying about dating. Boys are more trouble than they're worth at this point. Wait till you are older, when you AND the boys are more mature.
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  • 12 years old is a bit young to have a boyfriend. In high school, they might not even count their boyfriends from back then as boyfriends. I got my first boyfriend when I was 13 and I wish I waited until the age I am now. Never go out with someone just because someone asks you out. Never go out with someone just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Make sure your first boyfriend is someone who actually cares about you and you care about him, too. Seriously. It will be much better if you do this and people will view you as more responsible. Based on the information you have provided, I can't see a thing wrong with you. It doesn't mean you're ugly and it doesn't mean you're a loser if no one has asked you out. Keep living and do your homework and take care of yourself and be a good friend. In the end, that's what matters, right? If this makes you feel better, I'm my boyfriend's first girlfriend. He's 18 and I'm 17. We started dating when we were both 17. I wouldn't trade him for the world at this point in time and hopefully in the future I won't trade him, either. I love him. Even though he got his first girlfriend (me) at 17, he's still one of the best guys I have ever met in my life and is the farthest thing from ugly and a loser to me. I love him. See..... you should wait. Like he did. Now, he has a girlfriend who loves him instead of just some random girl he could go out with to say he has a girlfriend that doesn't even like him. :)
  • its okay. i'm 12 too.i never had a boyfriend. I'm certain that the right dude will ask you out, and you two will be happy forever.
  • one day you will have one keep your chin up and someone right will find you
  • At least half of the ones who SAY they've had a boyfriend/girlfriend, are exaggerating! No one wants to feel left out, so a lot of people say they have "gone steady", "hooked up", "been on dates", whatever the popular term is now. I gaurantee you that at least that many haven't had bf/gf's. Just relax, and don't let it bother you. Someone will come along soon and sweep you off your feet!
  • Just be yourself,you still hav plenty of years to go,your bound to find someone
  • I didn't have a boyfriend until recently. I'm 17, he's 18. We're each other's first and have been going out for just over four months. Just wait. You'll see. There is someone for everyone. Personally, I believe young relationships don't really last until you know all the implications of a full-time relationship... 12, IMO, is too young. People aren't mature enough and can't make it last. Trust me, in time you'll find that there is someone. and if there is someone you like, ask him yourself. Guys seem to like it when girls are more confident. I mean... after staring at my bf for almost two weeks, i slipped a note into his bag with my number. That night he texted me and the next day we spent hours together just getting to know each other. Guys get nervous too. Be brave if you're sure it's what you want. If not, then wait a while. And just a note on the side, I know exactly how you feel.. felt like that as well for a while. Took some time, but I got over that feeling and moved on wih my studies. Good things come to those who wait.

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