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by vjrenvern on January 11th, 2008

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I used to be good at talking to women. But ever since I broke up with my ex-, I seem to freeze up with women, I think it's because she said a lot of mean things to me, how I was never attractive, and so now I tend to feel that way, what can I do?

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on January 11th, 2008

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    Look, your ex sounds like she was a devil-woman. She is just one person, I would try to dismiss her rants as that of a bitter and miserable person. Try to move on and don't let her haunt you.

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  • by vjrenvern on January 11th, 2008

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    yeah, I guess, but whenever I find an attractive women, I tend to feel that she's too good for me. Now I know that confidence is everything, but how is someone able to build confidence without coming off as conceited?

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  • by ohanna86 on July 4th, 2009

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    don't feel that way.. accept what she said to you.. but never let those words ruin who you are.. she has bad opinions about you.. it's her prerogative.. just move on.. and hell those words.. you have a life to go on.. and keep pacing.. think about the good things you've done.. be happy!~

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  • by eric on January 11th, 2008

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    You came to the right person. See, you need to get your groove back. You also need a slumpbuster. Have an affair with someone who isn't as good looking as your ex. Shag yourself silly. After your slumpbuster, you'll gain confidence. That's called getting your groove back. BAM!

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  • by sazzycat09 on September 10th, 2010

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    get in to talk to a councelor. maybe it would be of some help to repair the damage that has been done emotionally towards you. you need to be happy about who you are before you will ever be able to be in a healthy relationship. there isnt a person on this earth that can just walk up and make you a happy person. you have to do that for yourself, and once that is being repaired then you will be able to start focusing on finding a significant other (probobly a more stable and healthier significant other then the one you had before).

    it doesnt hurt to take a time out and focus on yourself for a while. sometimes just having the chance to regroup and find out what you want to do with your life, how you feel about yourself, or even what your looking for in somone else.... sometimes that let alone is a healthy start. dont let anyone tell you that your not good enough physically, mentally or emotionally. be strong and try to believe that you are worth someones love and attention. not all women are going to rip you to shreads like the vulture that you had b4. (sorry probobly spelled that wrong!)

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