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by Zubradevine has left the building on January 11th, 2008

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If your s/o had an affair and produced a child with his lover and then ran of leaving both of you with kids, and the child of his lover became seriously ill and one of your own children was the only one who could save them would you allow it?

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  • by Jane on January 11th, 2008

    Jane

    in a heart beat.

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  • by anonymous on January 11th, 2008

    anonymous

    I would like to believe that I would. I would not want to punish a child over my personal feelings of betrayal. How could I not help the child? It would also go a long way toward making my ex and his lover think again about what they did to me and MY children. It could be healing for all involved.

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  • by JTP on January 11th, 2008

    JTP

    It wouldn't be up to me to allow it or not, it would be up to my child.

    Besides that, of course I would be fine with it, who am I to punish the child of someone who hurt me in the past? Punish those who deserve it, not their offspring.

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  • by Littlebirrd on January 11th, 2008

    Littlebirrd

    I would ask my child if they wanted to help and I would hope that I had raised a child who is generous and caring enough to say "yes"

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  • by Sayania on January 11th, 2008

    Sayania

    Of course. Feelings of betrayal or not, a child deserves a chance to live no matter of what their mother or father did in the past. They have done nothing. Their parents have.

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  • by mseve68 on January 11th, 2008

    mseve68

    Just because my ex is a two-timing slimebag dosen't mean that I should punish the child. I'd definitely do all that I could.

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  • by anonymous on January 11th, 2008

    anonymous

    I would help out any way I could its not the child's fault who its loser parents are.

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  • by Yarnlady is happy every day on January 11th, 2008

    Yarnlady is happy every day

    Allow it? I'd insist on it. My cousin found herself in a similar position, when the mistress was put in jail for an unrelated offense, she raised both kids, after all, they are brothers. We see them and their families every year at our family reunion.

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  • by Ms.A on January 11th, 2008

    Ms.A

    I don't know that it would be up to me to donate someone else's bodily tissues,whether it's my child or not.It would be the child's choice.

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