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by lola11111111111 on January 11th, 2008

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My boyfriend broke up with me for no reason. He still wants to be friends though. But when he comes over he does not act like just a friend. He hugs and kisses me and holds my hand...What do I do? Do i just let him do what he wants or tell h

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  • by Icebox April on January 11th, 2008

    Icebox April

    Let him know he can't have his cake and eat it too. He doesn't get to break up with you, but still get the perks of being a boyfriend. That's not fair to you.

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  • by Taciturnu on January 11th, 2008

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    Set some boundaries. Tell him you need some space, and you'll call when YOU'RE ready to be friends. Make sure if and when that phone call comes that you are able to keep it within friendship boundaries. You don't need to be in a confusing situation. (By the way, sounds lik a commitment-phobe.)

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  • by Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector on January 11th, 2008

    Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector

    He is attempting to use you. Lose the loser.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on January 11th, 2008

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    If I were in your shoes, I'd tell him to make up his mind. He's either with you or he isn't. If he isn't, he needs to act as though the relationship is over. How can you get over him if he keeps on doing things like this?

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  • by Grandma on January 11th, 2008

    Grandma

    He wants his cake and eat it.
    Speak up and ask him what he is playing at ?

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  • by mahbooh on September 24th, 2009

    mahbooh

    Put some space between you and him. Have limitation, next time if he hold and kiss you then let him feel that you are not comfortable with it so that he will realize that you ar not committed with him anymore. If possible not seeing him is much better, give time for yourself and him to realize how important you are to him.

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  • by Ms.A on January 11th, 2008

    Ms.A

    Tell him to get lost:)

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  • by UneFille on January 11th, 2008

    UneFille

    Ah, the old friends with benefits. Bloody run.

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  • by deadman on May 24th, 2009

    deadman

    don let him do all those things...hes nothing but using u......tell him to get lost......

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  • by Anonymous on September 24th, 2009

    Anonymous

    this is EXACTLY how my ex boyfriend acts, and i havnt known what to do for so long but after reading all these answers ad using my friends help, iv told him how i feel and that he either wants me or he doesnt and if its a no then you have to tell him its over, for good, completely. i suggest you do the same,He is using you and NOBODY deserves to be used, good luck :)

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  • by Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo on January 11th, 2008

    Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo

    What do you do?
    Tell him to have enough friggin' backbone to make a decision and stick to it.

    If he broke up with you, he broke up with you. That means he doesn't get to hug or kiss you any more unless YOU specifically ask him to. [And whyever would you?]

    Do what YOU want for a change. You're worth it.

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