ANSWERS: 11
  • Set some boundaries. Tell him you need some space, and you'll call when YOU'RE ready to be friends. Make sure if and when that phone call comes that you are able to keep it within friendship boundaries. You don't need to be in a confusing situation. (By the way, sounds lik a commitment-phobe.)
  • Let him know he can't have his cake and eat it too. He doesn't get to break up with you, but still get the perks of being a boyfriend. That's not fair to you.
  • He wants his cake and eat it. Speak up and ask him what he is playing at ?
  • If I were in your shoes, I'd tell him to make up his mind. He's either with you or he isn't. If he isn't, he needs to act as though the relationship is over. How can you get over him if he keeps on doing things like this?
  • What do you do? Tell him to have enough friggin' backbone to make a decision and stick to it. If he broke up with you, he broke up with you. That means he doesn't get to hug or kiss you any more unless YOU specifically ask him to. [And whyever would you?] Do what YOU want for a change. You're worth it.
  • Tell him to get lost:)
  • He is attempting to use you. Lose the loser.
  • Ah, the old friends with benefits. Bloody run.
  • don let him do all those things...hes nothing but using u......tell him to get lost......
  • this is EXACTLY how my ex boyfriend acts, and i havnt known what to do for so long but after reading all these answers ad using my friends help, iv told him how i feel and that he either wants me or he doesnt and if its a no then you have to tell him its over, for good, completely. i suggest you do the same,He is using you and NOBODY deserves to be used, good luck :)
  • Put some space between you and him. Have limitation, next time if he hold and kiss you then let him feel that you are not comfortable with it so that he will realize that you ar not committed with him anymore. If possible not seeing him is much better, give time for yourself and him to realize how important you are to him.

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