Why cant I hold back my cum when i am having sex? It feels so good when I am inside of her and I try to take my mind off of it but it doesnt work. What can I do?

What I do is, ethier beat off an hour before, or put some orajel around the tip and the shaft of my weenier.
Word. If that dont work try tia-chi, or work on you sub-concious need to get off quick. I you are like me it is from mastuerbating all the time and trying to get it done quickly.

three tips i can give you

1.Positions - Find out which ones help you last longer for me it's the cow girl (were she is on top)

2. Stay Calm And Breathe - be aware but don't get worried or paranoid about cumming too quickly

3. in time things will become quite natural just don't use creams or sprays alot of the "Medicated" aid's arn't as great as you think they are

Hope This helps =]

Tai Chi is not just bunch of slow moves ... there are many Taoist based lessons on how to be more aware of yourself and how to have a better and deeper set of self controls, right down to internal organs, glands, etc.

There are many Taoist secrets of love that teach ways to enhance the pleasure ... try taking some Tai Chi lessons ... and have a look at this ...

http://www.healing-tao.com/tao-garden/universal/en/books/

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it take time to do that what you might wont to start trying is when you pee try to stop it mid flow when you can do that you can do anything. good luck.

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My cousin taught me this a while back. I'm able to last as long as I want without ejaculating. When you pee, practice holding your pee as long as possible and then start again; repeat this as long as possible. Once you're used to the feeling, you won't even notice yourself holding it back when you're having sex.