He's ignoring my calls, should I just assume be broke up with me?
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Lovely_One
ANSWERS: 19
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Give him NO more power over you , move on - You deserve better
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Send him a picture of you, naked. Then he'll call.
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there is more to this... The last time I spoke to my boyfriend spoke he said that he would call me back later that night, but he never called. So brushed it off and it turned into a week of him not returning any of my calls or voicemails and I know he got them. Yesterday, I got fed up with him not calling me back and I called him from my voicemail and when I do that it makes calls blocked, and guess what he answered. I said hello, and all he could say was,"YOU" like I did somethin to him, and then he hung up. When I called back he hung up again! We've been together for over a year and he has NEVER hung up on me! So I sent him a text saying that if he didn't want to be with me that he should just say so, he didnt respond so I sent another text saying that it must have ment no and thanks for being a man about it. Then a few minutes later he texted me back saying, "Bye" When I saw that I called him back and he kept ignoring my calls. What just happened? Did he break up with me?
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In my opinion, stop calling him. try to move on. I think he will also try to find why you stopped calling him, but at that time be careful when he tries to come back to you, it will be your decision. but as of now just think as if you do not know that person.
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Yeah that's awful. That makes me so mad!! But you know what...yes he doesn't want to talk but her has his own guy reasons that are very hard to change save sexual enticement.
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Be proactive. Tell you are finished with him and its over. You decide its over. You don't have to wait to be told.
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The last time I spoke to my boyfriend spoke he said that he would call me back later that night, but he never called. So brushed it off and it turned into a week of him not returning any of my calls or voicemails and I know he got them. Yesterday, I got fed up with him not calling me back and I called him from my voicemail and when I do that it makes calls blocked, and guess what he answered. I said hello, and all he could say was,"YOU" like I did somethin to him, and then he hung up. When I called back he hung up again! We've been together for over a year and he has NEVER hung up on me! So I sent him a text saying that if he didn't want to be with me that he should just say so, he didnt respond so I sent another text saying that it must have ment no and thanks for being a man about it. Then a few minutes later he texted me back saying, "Bye" When I saw that I called him back and he kept ignoring my calls. What just happened? Did he break up with me?
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You just asked this question and this one is considered a duplicate question -- I answered your first one
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Try to think what is the problem with him, or what happend last time. and ask him. if he changed alot than before so he might want to break up. also he might be have some problems. so just ask him.
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I think you can safely assume he has broken up with you. Find somebody else.
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Perhaps yes, or could he be mad? Did anything unusual precede the act of ignoring you? Was there no explanation? For heaven's sake the bloke owes you a bloody explanation.
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Never assume anything- unless it's been about a month's time (or more). Just assuming could lead to a whole lot of trouble and mess. Just wait until you communicate again, and find out the deal at that time.
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Ignoring how many calls over what period of time? If you called him 10 times in 15 minutes, he could just be working/busy/in class. If you've called him 20 times in the past year, and he won't return your calls, you've broken up. You are leaving out a lot if info. And why do to want "a lot of answers"?
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Unless your 96, then you got a lot of life ahead of you and you should move on. If he is that rude to you and shows that much of a lack of respect towards you then why would you want him. People will hurt you in life but you don't have to keep asking them to do it again. Oh but if you are 96, your boyfriend might have died before getting your call.
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You have to move on. His actions are speaking loud enough. Dont continue to embarrass or hurt yourself by allowing him to keep rejecting you. If he wanted to work it out or be with you, he would do just that. Guys are simple. They are either into you or not. And he might have been just going through the motions of pretending he was happy until a) he had enough guts to break it off, or b) someone better came along that caught his interest. You might be confused because you saw no signs but he might have trying to hide his unhappiness so that he could still keep his options open in case he changed his mind or so he could keep sleeping with you until either option a) or option b) presented itself. You'll never know for sure why, but you do know what, which is that he is not into you anymore and so you have to move on.
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If you asked this question twice and people are pointing it out, but you still want answers...it says alittle bit about your personality. (..and it ain't good!) If a man is avoiding your calls, he's not interested. Where is the complication in that? How do you not understand that?
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my boyfriend abrupts to calling and responding to my text - he sent me a message saying that he is working out some issues. What could the issues be? He showed no signs of being involved.
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well, it could just mean that he's upset. me and my bf got into it, and he's not returning my txts, but i'm not worried because i know i pissed him off. BUT if you told him that it's over and he said "bye"...then it's over to him. maybe one of his friends told him something about you? either way, if he can't talk to you about it, or let you know what's up, then you don't need him. you deserve a reason why he's ending it. stop being upset. be happy, and you'll attract more happiness into your life.
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sometimes when i called my boyfriend he told me that he would call me back but he dose'nt and when i wait on his call too long i would call him back but got voice mail.some times i spend weekends with him. but to my surprise the last weekend iwas there,one evening he called me on his way home and told me that he has to go to miami the same evening for emergency situation.i did'nt bother to question it i just pack my stuff and on his way to the airport he called a cab to take me home, i was very upset but i pretend that i was ok. the trip he said was work related.so what do you think?
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