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by scrappysmom on January 8th, 2008

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I am 28yrs old and have never had a real serious relationship, just casual dating. I have been engaged for over a year now and my fiance has never done really anything for me not to trust him but i need to know everything his MySpace password especially?

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  • by charis on January 8th, 2008

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    trust is one of the singlemost important aspects of a successful marriage relationship. you need to seek some counseling to help you figure out where these trust issues are stemming from if it's not from him.

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  • by Stableboy on January 8th, 2008

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    I think you should do your best to keep this kind of anxiety to yourself, rather than pour it out onto your fiance.

    Everybody needs some privacy, and it's actually healthy for your relationship to respect his privacy and grant him some room to breathe.

    If you're anxious about being able to trust him, work on yourself, not him. That anxiety can be studied and managed, you can learn a lot about yourself by doing so.

    Contrary to popular belief, it is NOT a good idea to tell your mate every thought that comes into your head. Some thoughts are distinctly unhelpful.

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  • by Firebrand on January 8th, 2008

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    If he has never given you reason not to trust him, why do you wish to invade his privacy in such a way.

    This is insecurity either in yourself or in your relationship.
    If you love this man you would be better to give him some space and privacy which is something we all need and are entitled to have.

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  • by Sosueme on January 18th, 2009

    Sosueme

    No you don't. It's called trust and apparently you have issues. Just chill.

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  • by St. Thomas on January 18th, 2009

    St. Thomas

    Wow, you have some issues. OK, so why would you need his myspace password? You think he is getting friend messages from some other girl?

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  • by scrappysmom on January 8th, 2008

    scrappysmom

    Yes I said "YES" to the engagement, we have not set a date yet...I had a baby last November and he died so that has slowed our plans down a bit. We are not in a real big hurry to get married, waiting until we have saved enough for a down payment on a house and him to get out of school. He has lied to me about a few things and NO i am not stuck in High School I have matured well beyond that. I know I have issues to work on.

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  • by Possum on January 8th, 2008

    Possum

    why have you been engaged for over a year? have you formally anounced the engagement or just kind of said, yeah, dude, let's get married?

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  • by MIA on January 18th, 2009

    MIA

    Your need is not the password to his myspace. The need is can you trust him.

    sorry, to say that.
    Unless, you think by having the myspace password will help him to fix his myspace page.
    Then the trust should be with him for you.

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  • by Someone on January 18th, 2009

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    My guess is that is why you have never been in a serious relationship before. I can't imagine if I was demanded to give over my passwords to my boyfriend. I think you need to work out these issues before you get married or else your marriage will be over before it began.

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  • by A on January 12th, 2008

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    You do not need to know his MySpace password. You want to know it. There is a difference. If he's never given you a reason not to trust him, why not give him the benefit of the doubt?

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  • by ENERGY on January 18th, 2009

    ENERGY

    YOU MUST HAVE TRUST. WHAT WILL THE MYSPACE PASSWORD DO FOR YOU. IF YOU SEEK SOMETHING BAD YOU WILL FIND IT. TRUST IS THE NAME OF THE GAME.

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  • by J.A.N. on January 18th, 2009

    J.A.N.

    You will do fine...just think how you would feel, if it was asked of you, for that password.

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  • by babyjake on January 18th, 2009

    babyjake

    You really do not sound like you are ready for this relationship. You will never survive you lack of trust will drive you crazy and him crazy and will drive you apart.

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  • by Gene H on January 18th, 2009

    Gene H

    That's just a little sick. You should see a counselor. At 28 you need to have some relationship practice so that you know what to expect. You sound like you are covertly trying to control this guy.

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  • by LadyPictureShow on January 18th, 2009

    LadyPictureShow

    If he's never done anything for you not to trust him, why don't you trust him? It's prefectly fine to wonder about their past. Just don't let it get the best of you. Trust him and you'll both be happy.

    Congrats!

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  • by secondratebitch on January 18th, 2009

    secondratebitch

    You could always ask to see his myspace, but believe me getting his password will not help things; you will either a) learn he's a scumbag, or b) become addicted to looking through his personal things and flip out over something small; like a spam message from a porn site.

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