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  • Yeah. Pretty much, sex. Are you saying women aren't indecisive? hahahahahaha! Good one.
  • an empty peanut butter jar
  • Sex and booze. Oh and TV.
  • Unfortunately a lot of men have the need to compare. How much they're getting, how big it is, how many they've scored with, how drunk they've gotten. Indeed if you stand back and watch, most of mens behaviour boils down to "Out-doing" the other guy or guys, and always with quantifiable measurements. Bigger TV, smaller phone, hotter car, more alcohol consumed, fatter paycheck, faster computer, longer ding dong. Notice that the appreciation of fine arts or doing yoga is not a measureable quantity, nor is the quality of a relationship, thusly it doesn't rate in many men's minds. Hopefully this helps you understand slightly better the male psyche.
  • They want you to be there when they need you like a wing man but not replace their male friends. Women fill the void in a man's world that no hetero guy can fill. Fill in the blanks.
  • I WANT BIG KISSIES!!!! *MUAH* *MUAH* :D
  • A lady in the streets and a freak in the bed.
  • umm i think they want sex...
  • sex, oral sex, kinky sex, and an ego boost. other than that, they want you to leave them alone and pretend there is no relationship.
  • Personally, I want someone who I can talk to about anything. Someone who can keep my secrets, and be not only my girlfriend, but my best friend. Someone who I can just spend time with, just hang out and have a good time. Someone to talk to when no one else will listen. Someone who will accept who I am and everything about me and not complain or mind. Someone to be able to hug and to be happy with.
  • Men don't want a relationship. They want sex, then to be left alone. Men endure relationships to get sex.
  • We want someone who reminds us of why this world is. Someone to have and to hold, someone to look after us when we're in need. Someone to cherish us and treat us like we matter. Someone who knows us better than we know ourselves. Failing that, sex, and lots of it
  • absolute honesty. a partner who cares almost as much for my well being as I do for hers. someone willing to make half as much sacrifice for me as I am willing to make for her. sex. I got none of those, so why do I still want my wife back?
  • It all depends on the male is he's ready or not, theres many factors that men need to feel acomplished in order to be ready for a relationship or they feel inadequate to do a relationship. Job career physical appearence and many opther factors which is why most of them take to be 30+ for a real one.
  • Someone to be there as your best friend. Also, she must put up with guy stuff without complaining.:)
  • Someone else already said this, but I think he/she got it right: They want someone to be there for them, but not replace their male friends. And PLEASE people, unless the men you're dating are totally pathetic, there is no way they need a RELATIONSHIP in order to get laid. WTF, srsly? Yah, everybody wants good sex, but you can do that without the commitment.
  • No offense,but if you failed once or twice,maybe the problem is the ones you're dating...But if you failed over and over,you might wanna start to think that you're the problem..
  • You have to understand that all men aren't the same. We are as different inside as we are on the outside. The differences are staggering. Some men want a very rigid, steady relationship and thrive on it being very affectionate. Other men are the complete opposite and prefer remaining single and aren't very affectionate but may be very social. If your trying to fit all men into a box and figure out what "we" want it isn't going to make any sense. You just have to look for the type you're interested in. One caveat... while you may be attracted to one type, ultimately you may find that type isn't what's right for you after all.
  • They don't always know what they want until they find it ...
  • You'll never get an answer to that question. Each man is an individual and wants different things, so you'll never learn what "guys" want. Seek a man who wants what you want first, and not someone who looks a certain way, and you'll do a lot better. Be a woman of character and seek a man of character.
  • "Dating career"? Ok... Um, I say love, followed by sex, followed by more love.
  • Converstaion, inderstanding, and oh yeah ...sex unencumbered with begging.
  • Maybe you're a control freak? Possibly? Personally, I want to see how a relationship naturally develops. And, many women don't. They want to force things.
  • Sanity, no crises made by women, no drama, no nagging and good sex. That would by itself alleviate 90% of all divorces alone. Now of course once that is taken care of it up to the men to respond with some understanding of women's issues and to be supportive.
  • They just want love and companionship..ie. a loving woman. +4
  • I want a companion. I don't want to spend every waking hour with her, I want some time to myself. I don't want to live my life FOR her. I want to live my life WITH her.
  • oh my God.very simple. the companionship of a beautiful lady who does not wear the boss's pants all the time. +2
  • There is no magical explanation that would answer your question. All men are different. And YOU'RE talking about someone not making up their minds....Wow...Women is the ruler of not making up their minds....Ya'll dont know what you want....never..from the smallest thing to shoes to purses all the way up to relationships. Never satisfied. But we deal with it... With relationships, its a hit and miss...You some some you lose some...lose one to get one and so on.

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