by tazluver on April 30th, 2006

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My husband and the girl he is having an affair with have people following me so they make sure I don't catch them. Is this considered stalking or harassment? What can I do?

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by Rinky Dinky Do on August 25th, 2009
Sounds to me like you've already caught them. So, what would be the point of having you followed so that you don't do what you've already done?
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- They are probably trying to get some dirt on her so he can counter sue for divorce by claiming she is unfaithful as well.
  
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  by pandora on August 25th, 2009
- My, my, my...what a tangled web we weave
  
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by brian646 on August 25th, 2009
if your husband is having an affair, i suggest that he not be your husband anymore....there are a ton of men out there who will not cheat on you....take care....Brian......
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by ladyshakespeare on August 25th, 2009
when they follow you, call 911. report a stalker, and tell them you are terrified to go home. Yes, its a crime to stalk, but you have to be afraid of them. Why havent you left him yet?
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by tuvw on October 24th, 2009
I'd let those people follow me. Take them on some very exciting field trips. They could follow me to my attorneys office, to the bank, to the locksmiths, to my husbands new storage locker, where I was placing all his personal belongings. And, last but not least, they could follow me to my new life.
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by Bollocks on October 24th, 2009
I'd consider it paranoia.
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by Lalala on August 25th, 2009
How can they catch u if u already know? I would just tell them that u already know!
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by Anonymous on October 24th, 2009
Obviously he has been caught. For the people following you now, Its going to create more problems in the long run. I would avoid the husband and quietly seek an attorney to draw up divorce papers to have him pay spousal support or 20% of his pay being paid to you. Then find another man to love you for who you are. There are plenty of men out there seeking honest women. You are probably going to be lucky to find an honest man out there somewhere. He is out there waiting on you. Good luck.
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- as far the harrassment is concerned, I would definitely file charges against the people following you or confront them asking them what is it of their business on where you go. If you are terrified, call 911. have the police report made so you can use it in court. Good luck on this.
  
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  by Anonymous on October 24th, 2009
- nothing says "helpless child" or "parasite" like spousal support.
  
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by spooner on August 25th, 2009
Um, both, or you're paranoid... But maybe you could get someone to run defense for you so you can catch them... Better yet file for divorce and leave it up to whoever serves the papers to find him.
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by Emmi331 on August 25th, 2009
It could be considered a form of stalking, I would think. But if he is truly cheating on you, maybe it's time to dump him and let the two losers have each other.
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by Anonymous on August 25th, 2009
Tell the police you are being stalked. The next time you know you are being followed, have this person arrested. If this person following you doesn't confront you and say anything to you, it's not harassment. If you know your husband and his whore are sneaking around, why don't you just go to where they are 'meeting' and confront them? Life's too short.
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- why do people loose more venom on the side action than the cheater? the side action has made no covenants with you to betray. she may not be a good person but she is not the evil one.
  
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  by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on October 24th, 2009
- How is she not in the wrong, TAPriceCTR? She is disrespecting a marriage. That in itself is wrong. If I went after a married man, of course I would be doing something very wrong. I would understand if the woman was more mad at me than her husband. Why? Well, if I never went after him in the first place, it never would have happened.
  
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  by A on November 2nd, 2009
- she is not a part of that marriage. she has made no commitments to marriage. as I said she is not a good person... but the cheater is teh evil one. I am actualy friends with my (soon to be) ex wife's second cyber affair. she lied to him and if I believed the things she told him I'd have hated me too. the truth came out and he apologized.
  
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by laaayla on March 17th, 2010
Just thought of something funny. Why don't you have one of your friends with similar coloring and build come over to your house and put on your clothes. She could leave in your car. And you leave in hers. Just kidding. I suppose maybe you aren't aware of the fact that you can put a GPS unit in your husbands car and you can follow him by computer. You can then find out where he's at every moment of the day. There are also programs that will let you know what's being said on his phone (www.cell spy pro.com). You may be able to get a detailed report from the phone company too. And then there are also programs that will show you what he's looking at and who he's in contact with on the computer (www.webwatcher.com and www.spectorpro.com, are two that I know of) If you want to catch him there are many ways to do it and people following you around won't be able to stop you from finding out. If there are truly people following you they are stalking you and the police should be contacted.
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