Talk to him about why. That seems REALLY strange. Also, take him to your prenatal doctor visits, as well as prenatal counseling. Some men fear that the baby may be hurt - or somehow "watch" what is going on, and feel observed. Most men seem to find their partners being pregnant with their child as a major turn-on though, so there must be something that's worrying him.

My husband was like that with my pregnancy once I got further along (around middle 2nd trimester). He would avoid intercourse and I felt hurt. When we talked about it he said he was afraid he was going to make me miscarry . As soon as the baby was born he was back to his old self again.

I have definately talked to him about it, lol. I'm five months along and he is not attracted to the changes in my body. He also keeps saying that I need to act more wholesome since I have a baby in me now. (?) I was hoping somebody migh have gone through similar.

HE needs to talk to the doctor! Sex is alright when you're preggo unless you're high risk, or you're in your 9th month.

I am 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not have sex with me either....he isn't afraid of hurting the baby, he says that it's just a different mind set now that i am pregnant...what ever that means?!! It makes me feel hurt and upset, i even asked him point blank if there was someone else..lol...i laughed when i said it to him, and he chuckled and said no, it's just a different mind set....so, some men just don;t like to have sex with pregnant woman...which is horrible for me because my libido did a turn around and i want to have sex more than ever! There may be something bothering him within the relationship...have you guys been fighting at all or having any problems from before you became pregnant?? My boyfriend and I have had some rocky times and sometimes men can't have sex until they feel calm about the relationship again. Just keep voicing your concerns. The fact that he said you should ne more "wholesome" is a bit odd I must say...what did he mean by that, that you are being dirty by wanting to have sex with while having the baby inside you?? and being pregnant is a beautiful thing, I hope he didn't tell you he wasn't attracted to the changes in your body :( I would smack him for that!!!! pregnancy is beautiful and there is nothing ugly about it, and I agree with teh comments above, he needs to speak to your doctor, or maybe you can print something off from online and let him read it. maybe that will help....keep us posted and let us know what's happening

Im nine months pregnant and my boyfriend wont have sex with me he says its not me but i feel like hes not attracted to me anymore like i feel hurt and unpretty and i just want to make him happy and i dont know what to do if someone can help me