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  • only if you're hostile for no reason. other than that if you choose to be a solitary man or woman it's all up to you. do whatever makes you happy as long as you aren't hurting anybody else in the process
  • I don't think so. Some very successful and famous people have been recluses. Different strokes for different folks.
  • Not if that is what you truely want, and not just avoiding people because you don't know how to fit it.
  • Being a loner is a plus in my opinion...especially if the alternative is to be a sheep.
  • No. There is nothing wrong with it. Sometimes it is better to be a loner and anti-social (ie. if you're in a crowd of people doing stupid things that could potentially be against the law). What is wrong is if you turn it into a way of attacking others for no just cause.
  • Well, I think I'm a loner these days. And I'm generally antisocial these days. So I think it's okay, as long as you can still function perfectly (go to school or report for work, talk to family members)
  • no nothing wrong with it at all, I have been this way since I was 13years old and I have no need change, I know whats right and wrong and don't need the 'herd' to tell me
  • I'm a loner, I'm a very private person. But antisocial? No way! I love people. I love talking and having fun, I just like my privacy.
  • I have days I would like to be by myself and not bothered. However, I am not like that everyday.
  • As long as you are OK with that; No.
  • As long as you're OK being that way, no. If it's something you have a problem with and want to change, then yeah, it's something you should look into. I personally am not an antisocial person, and can't imagine being one myself, but I can see why some people would want to be. So basically if it's you and you're cool with it, then I don't see the problem :) Just don't be shitty to more social people who approach you just because you want to maintain the "loner" persona. You can be a loner but still be cordial. That's the biggest issue I generally find with people who aren't really social (not all, but some have been downright nasty because I had the gall to say hello lol).
  • *Whew*...thought I was the ONLY one! After growing up as an "outcast" amongst peers, it just seemed natural to become a loner and antisocial.
  • not really, some people are just more solitary than others. Sometimes u just want to find peace within yourself and u dont need the others around... just relax and be lonely if u want.
  • It makes it difficult to reach out and help people in need. It also makes it difficult to spread the gospel if you're a Christian.
  • Maybe being alone is better than being around hurtful types
  • its good to have ur alone time here and there but i think its still good to socialize with other people. we dont want u 2 go insane!
  • No, not really.
  • No. The way you live your life depends on the way you look at it. If you have a perspective which suggests that being a part of society would bring more bad than good then that is what would happen, therefor rendering it an illogical choice to choose to participate.
  • It's fine and I find it to be mentaly healthy for myself to have a level of simply "being" without the constant dramas or chatters of others and their egos. You should feel fortunate also since you can have alone time. Some people are so consumed with work, spouse and kids along with friends that they hardly get any much needed "me" time to be alone. It's a luxury for some people to have only one hour or less of complete aloneness. I've even told friends while on trips that I will have to have some alone time or quiet time and it's nothing bad about them persay, it's just how I recharge my batteries and reconnect with the world around me. We all have to find our happy medium I guess.

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