My ex owes me 45,000 in alimony at the time he had a great job,lost it getting high. He now gets va benefits and ssd, I get ssd also he is 59 I am 53 married 16 years. 2 older sons,28 and 30 and he had a 8 year old daughter during our marriage. What can

by beenthere on September 20th, 2009

I am a woman and I say you should let the money go. I have always thought it ridiculous that anyone should have to pay someone just because they were no longer married to them. Live within your means and let him live his new life without you-you will never be happy with yourself if you want to continue to hang alimony over your exhusbands head. Just start a new life with a new man and forget it. Be a good person not a material woman.

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by wthing8 on September 15th, 2008

Get a job and move on...HE HAS!

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by starrrgazer on July 10th, 2008

You'll never get it. They can not garnish VA benefits or SSD. You've lost that money. Cut your ties. Grieve the loss for a few days. Then move forward with your life. Best of luck!

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by Liv on July 8th, 2008

Your answer? Get a job and cut your loses! Stop worrying about what he owes you, or how he lost his job. Be a strong, proud, independent woman and keep your focus on your kids!

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