ANSWERS: 32
  • You need to run, not walk, away from this relationship. He sounds emotionally abusive and controlling. Not a healthy relationship. Get out. Good luck.
  • RUN as fast as you can in the other direction! Get the hell away from this guy. He's a control freak and he's jealous. Not saying that everyone like that is violent, but there's a good chance that is what's going to come next! Get away before he sucks you in and makes you feel worthless to keep you with him! Seriously...get away NOW!
  • Why do you need to work so hard? Believe me, been there done that. Put your order in for something better, you will get it!
  • Um, he's an ass. Dump him.
  • He is emotionally abusive. Get rid of him before he ruins you.
  • I just need to know WHY you are going out with him?
  • You don't need help. You need to get out of the relationship...simple.
  • If I were you, I would check myself into the nearest mental hopsital if that is what it takes to get rid of him. This guy is dangerous.
  • nobody deserves that! get out while you can!!!
  • Please get out as soon as you can. He is emotionally abusive and it could become physically abusive. Even if it doesn't you deserve better than that.
  • RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!! Do not walk! This is TROUBLE!!!!!!! He wants total control! He wants to own you! No......way! Get away from him. I hope you understand.....OWN YOU! Like you were an animal. Not a human being. OHHHHHHHH I've been there. Get away..........fast! And don't look back!
  • You need a ticket outta there. His definite insecurity will be the death of you if you stay with this freak of nature. He's not only controlling you but he will eventually run your entire life and have you thinking it's not so bad. GET AWAY FROM HIM!
  • you need to get out of the relation ship. No guy should ever call you a slut. and a relationship is all about trust, if he cant even let you talk to your guy friends its not worth it. :/
  • Two words for you.......DUMP HIM!! Here's the reasons why you should dump him.. 1) he doesnt' trust you. 2) he wants to control you. 3) he calls you names. 4) he doesn't think you do anything right. So now tell me why are you still with him???
  • why do you still date him then? I mean do you not think you can meet someone who will treat you better? Always keep in mind, there is someone out there who would LOVE to be with you and cherish you. Don't settle on some guy who isn't the one willing to give you anything he can and everything you want. Same goes for men out there.
  • I'm thinking what you need is a police escort to get your sh*t and get out while you can. Do you not understand that this kind of abuse INEVITABLY leads to getting smacked around which INEVITABLY leads to closed fists which INEVITABLY leads to an almost certain death? Women who die at the hands of their abuser always start out with a story just like yours.
  • Usually when people behave this way its because of what THEY are doing. He doesnt trust you, because he doesnt trust himself!!!!
  • Get away from this guy. He sounds a bit crazy in the head.
  • Get rid of him ASAP. Do you really think he's ever going to just change his behavior on his own?
  • drop him sweety like a rock. you can do better.
  • Why are you with this man? Someone that treats you this way, does not really love you. He doesn't trust you, and he obviously does not believe in you. He just wants to control your every move. I don't mean to sound so blunt, but I really feel for you; and I don't feel that anybody should be treated this way. Please consider "RUNNING" while you have the chance, and don't even consider "MARRYING" this man.
  • You need help alright, from your local law enforcement. You get away from him and file a restraining order immediately. And speak to a counselor as to why you make such poor decisions in selecting mates.
  • sure dump his sorry a$$
  • Yes, you do! So what is keeping you in the relationship? It cant be his charm. I know, this might sound harsh, but it is needed. Why do you let a person, tell you what you can and cant do, are you such a moron, that you cant make decisions for yourself? Why do let him call you names, and not leave him, when he totally disrespects you, do you think he is right? Are you not allowed to talk to males, the rest of your life, because he is insecure? ***You teach people how to treat you, as long as you allow it, he will do it, stand up for yourself, you do deserve better.
  • In all probability things will only get worse, you need to end it with him and move on....and QUICKLY!
  • run for the hills honey
  • looking at the date this was asked and the time now, have you dumped him yet?
  • This doesn't sound good at all. You shouldn't have to go out on a limb for someone like this. Someone who really cares wouldn't treat you like that.
  • Girl if you dont leave this relationship right away you are going to regret wasting anymore time on this ass. RUN away and find someone who will treat you like a person and not a dog. I have been there and it is only a matter of time before he becomes physically abusive if he hasnt already. My ex would beat on me constantly. Took me over 2 years to realize that was not love. Wish I could get those years back! A freind of mine told me first time a victim second time a volunteer and I finally woke up..Dont waste your life on him. Good luck!
  • He is not worth your time. You are starting an abusive relationship and it will worse. You are not his slave. He's way too insecure. Sit down and let him know how u feel about him accusing you. More likely his guilty conscience is going against him. Break it off. If he does love you he will calm down. Otherwise kick him to the curb.
  • dump him fast and save your self before its too late . your in an abusive relationship and it might turn dangerous later on , so act now ! first it starts by the bf controling his gf life , then calling her names , and then turning too jelous and endup by beating her .
  • Depends there is something called LOVE duhhhhh so if you love him obviously hes been burned by an unfaithful woman you need to find out why hes so insecure and offer him some compassion and love and help then if it doesnt get better tell him it will be over. If you dont learn how to address your problems now they will follow you into your next relationship.

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