ANSWERS: 8
  • Being raped is never your fault. The moment "No" or "Stop" pass your lips...its over, if they continue - it's rape.
  • being drunk does not give him the reason to rape you. It is HIS fault, not yours. Go to the police and file charges. He will do it to someone else if you don't. Be brave. Face this b****d and tell him "You took advantage of me and you raped me. This is your fault." The police will get you some good counselling too.
  • i went to the police and was vido interviewed i later found out my mum lied and was sitting room next doog waching the interview anyway they could not find him becuase i didt give anuth informaton as to what he looked like
  • It's never your fault. If that's not what you want and dude doesn't let off, it's rape. I've been in a simalar situation. Not as bad but, I can see where you're coming from. Don't beat yourself up for it. It wasn't your fault that douchebag didn't have enough respect and stop. It's his fault. And I know it's easier said than done but, try your best to let go of the past and look foward to the future. Just hang in there.
  • Rape is never your fault. Even if you were drinking, if, at any time, you told him "No" or "Stop" then any action beyond that was against your will and would be considered rape. Don't feel like it's your fault -- you might not have had all your faculties about you because you were drinking, but you didn't not asked to be raped. He was in the wrong, not you!
  • No, it is not your fault if you said 'no' or tried to resist. I would think that that would be a standard definition of rape.
  • THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Is there a professional you can talk to? Like a therapist or is there a rape crisis center in your city? Ask your mom, a parent, or a trusted adult if you can to help you with counseling and services to get through these tough times. I'm sorry this happened to you.
  • I am so sorry to hear what happened to you. I was also raped whilst I was under the influence of alcohol & can totally relate to you. For years I've wondered if I "asked for it" or could've stopped it & so on but the truth is, it's never the victim's fault. If you didn't consent, it is rape. Full stop. I suggest that you talk to someone in confidence, preferably a counsellor but alternatively a close friend or relative so that you can express yourself. I wish you all the luck in the world to get you through this. You didn't deserve it - you deserve to be loved & cared for.

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