by Summer on December 31st, 2007

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Help! Been seeing this guy & for the last month every time we see each other we almost have sex. I'm a virgin & don' t know if I should give it to him. My body wants sex. He says he f**ks around a lot, doesn't want me to leave hickie marks, or show pda.

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  • by kazzzy on December 31st, 2007

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    If you aren't sure whether you should lose your virginity to this guy, then DON'T! Your first time should be somewhat special, as you'll remember it always. Not sure an admitted player, who doesn't want it publicly known that he is seeing you, is going to be all that special. :D

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  • by Anonymous on January 1st, 2008

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    Now please think about this. Why the heck would you want to give yourself to a guy that has sex with many others? Does he deserve you? I think NOT! Get rid of this bum...move on and don't do anything that you feel you are not ready for! Remember sex holds a lot of responsibilities such as pregnancy, STD's and AIDS! It only takes once to get one or all of these!

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  • by Ratface on January 1st, 2008

    Ratface

    Why would you want to have sex with someone that doesnt want others to know that he has had sex with you AND to top that is telling you he is having sex with other girls.
    At least let your first time be with someone that appreciates you and what you have to offer and isnt gonna be in bed or in the back of a car with a different girl a few hours after screwing you.

    You are worth more than just a quick fuck with someone who aint gonna be too fussed if he gets another one after cos he can have it with any other girl.

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  • by Icebox April on January 1st, 2008

    Icebox April

    Virginity is something special. Something you can never get back. So you need to be really sure about who you share that with, because there really aren't any do-overs. This guy doesn't sound like he's going to make it special or like it will mean anything to him if you do get down, so I would wait until you find someone who will at least acknowledge and CARE that they're taking it from you.

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  • by t_tiffy on December 31st, 2007

    t_tiffy

    Wait till you're sure that he is the right person. It's really not something you take lightly...

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  • by DAMOMWON on January 1st, 2008

    DAMOMWON

    Im telling u set him to the curb. He's no good.

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  • by Fiddle Playing Creole Bastard on May 25th, 2009

    Fiddle Playing Creole Bastard

    Don't do it. You sound really young, and in hindsight, a while down the road, you will probably regret it.

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  • by Prime wants the old AB back on January 1st, 2008

    Prime wants the old AB back

    I agree with Ratface, Icebox April, kazzy and t_tiffy! It's natural for you to want to; however, virginity is very special and the first time is special and should be with someone you really love and that truly loves you (not someone who plays around for fun.) Sex is an intimate expression of love; not a recreation. Be true to yourself.

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