ANSWERS: 11
  • Yes. you should definatly go. dont let the ex-friend ruin the friendship you have with someone. avoid them as much as possible, im sure they will try and do the same.
  • If the friendship ended on such bad terms that you can't be in the same room with that person then your friends should know in the first place that you should have some time away from your ex-friend. Eventually I hope, you'll come to a mutual relationship where you aren't enemies, and won't feel too much anger towards each other. If your friends ask you to go to something where the ex-friend will attend less than a month after the final confrontation, I would say it's safe to politely decline.
  • I would probably go if I could. Why punish the mutual friend who didn't do anything wrong just because you and the other person can't get along?
  • You should totally go. Just because you have ended a friendship with one person in your circle of friends doesn't mean you have to find a whole new circle to roll with.
  • I'd go, but don't think I won't sneak at some point and blow finely ground black pepper into the air my enemy intends to breathe. If I must endure their presence, they may as well entertain me.
  • You should go.. just be cival.. dont start drama.. just be a bigger person an not show that they might bug you!!!
  • My mom always tells me the worlds about "politics" for ex politicians dont like one another but they still shake hands and smile and although they are running against one another they show respect. If i was you i would continue to do everything and wouldnt waste time thinking if an ex friend is there.Be very civil to them, regardless of what they did. Lifes too short for grudges.
  • It depends on how many other people will be at the dinner party or social gathering. If a friendship has ended on bad terms, that ex-friend is probably the last person in the world I'd want to talk to or spend time with. I'm kind of shy around people, anyway, but a forced interaction with someone whose presence stresses me out would be almost too hard for me. I'd likely be happier at home, reading. If I could get lost in the crowd at the party, then I'd probably go. Excellent question, by the way.
  • If the friendship ended on bad terms, it would be a kindness to remove yourself from any possibility of meeting this person in a social setting. Those who know about the breach/break would be affected, watching to see how the two of you treated each other. You would be on edge. The other person would probably be nervous. If it means seeing your mutual friends individually and not collectively, then that's the price you pay..but I think it would be a small price to protect everyone from an uncomfortable environment and worst case, a "scene"! :)
  • You should physically fight that person. The winner keeps the friends.
  • Yes u should go. Just keep your head up!!!

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