Does it count as cheating if my girlfriend was to kiss another female?
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Yeah, but...I don't know that it's something to really complain about.
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Did you like it??? then no. If she did it behind your back and then told you, then yes.
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It's totally cheating! Unless you're okay with it. Maybe you guys could try swinging!
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I have kissed female friends before, altho I had a boyfriend. But not in a romantic/sexual way, just for effect in clubs and stuff. Doesn't mean anything, just a bit of fun. Not cheating. BUT, if the woman is not her friend, and the kissing was prolonged/led to other things - cheating!
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kiss as in on the cheek, or kiss as in kiiiiiissss? If the latter, then, yes, it is cheating.
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The only person that can answer that is you. Society can define cheating as one thing, but it is really up to each individual to determine what is cheating to them. That is really what should be most important. If you are comfortable with your g/f kissing another girl than that is not cheating to "you". Alot of couples swing and have 3somes etc...etc. So if you are comfortable with it I say more power to you..... And enjoy :)
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It's a matter of opinion. I would say no!
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That depends on the feelings your girlfriend has for that female :-)
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It counts as HOT! Tell her you won't be mad, if she let's you watch.
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God damnit, it's totally cheating. and i saw my girlfriend kissing other girls, i was so pissed off. now i am thinking to break up with her bc she loves 3some too!! too bad for her!!!!
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When you are in a one on one relationship she shouldnt be kissing anyones lips but yours! I say its cheating, she should only be with you..if its not a play thing with a girlfriend and it is a meaningful kiss then dumo her...i odnt think you want a bi sexual relationship/open relationship...
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Well, I HAVE kissed other girls and my boyfriend didn't mind. I guess it all depends on where you stand. Some people don't think kissing it cheating PERIOD, and others do.
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In my opinion, ... yes, unless she was kissing a family member on the cheek or something.
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My bf says it is. Even when he's around. Can some explain to me WHY THE HELL THAT IS??? Seriously, MEN, you idiots (no offence but on this topic I really believe you all ARE), you sit there and you talk about how much you love looking at women on women, but are never happy when it's your own woman! PLEASE, someone, explain this mindset to me, this is a DOUBLE STANDARD!!! Is it not??? And it's aboslutely ridiculous! It confuses me.
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It would depend on why she was kissing and how. If it was a passionate kiss and she kissed the other female because she had feelings fro her, then yes, it would be considered cheating. Otherwise, I don't know if I'd count it as such.
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This is a judgement call that only you can make. Really depends on the circumstances and on the type of kiss. I know women that kiss each other when they meet and greet. I personally don't like it.
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I would say so.
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This is a great question. I believe that in this society, females partaking in acts like this is much more widely accepted that male to male. However, technically I think it would be a bit disrespectful to you. But, I've kissed some of my friends when a little drunk and just having a good time and my boyfriend didn't get upset. That was a few years ago and i was a lot younger, but some guys will mind and some won't. I do think though that most guys would prefer their girl kissing another girl than another guy. :P
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well well.. I would say it is classed as cheating for this reason. In the way that it could kill some trust. If your girlfriend is out there kissing other women, even if it is her mates, or even under the influence of some drink, how do you know that she won't do it to any guy friends either?! That's one way it can be seen. If she has feelings for these women, she wouldn't do it again and should respect the fact you didn't like it. I didn't mind much when it was my girlfriend kissing another girl, but I can say that this HAS happened to me before.. and it is part of why it has had an impact on whether I can complately trust my girlfriend. It's all about respect; she should respect you and ask before hand if it would bothered you or not. Many girls kiss each other on a daily basis, only in a friendly way. In the same way you should respect her and that if she said it wasn't meant for any harm then that should be believed (unless it is more frequent). You have to have the right amount of trust in your girlfriend and she needs to respect that you have your boundaries and so does she. take care :-)
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Lips don't cheat; hearts do.
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No my girlfriend had a girlfriend. I figured as long as I was the only dick there I didnt care.
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depends on wether it was a sexual kiss or not. I know girls are more affectionate to eachother than guys are and guys can hug
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There is no rules in the book on this so you make the rule appropriate to your judgement and you don't need the permission or opinion of another person to tell you what is cheating or not.
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