by Anonymous on December 22nd, 2007

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HOW DO YOU GIVE A GUY A GOOD BLOW JOB

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  • Once you are in position and feeling relaxed and comfortable it is time to begin. Don't just rush into things, start by teasing him and getting him aroused. You can use your hands and mouth for this. Start by kissing the inside of his thighs or maybe kissing him from the neck right down to the bottom of his stomach and stopping there. By this stage he will be so turned on and he will be anticipating your next move. You can then begin to stroke and play with his penis using gentle kisses.

    Flicking your tongue back and forth across the head of the penis can also be very arousing but be careful though because this is the most sensitive area of the penis. You can also use your tongue to explore your partners penis. Don't worry about your saliva, it is quite normal to have a lot and you can use it to moisten the penis which will make it easier for your mouth to slide up and down.

    When you have explored him fully the next step is to take his penis into your mouth. Allow your mouth to slide down the shaft of his penis as far as it will go. Don't worry if you can't fit it all in, this takes a lot of practice and is known as deep throating. Trying to do this at an early stage will only cause you to gag. Keep using your tongue the whole time his penis is in your mouth as this will add to his pleasure.

    If you would like your partner to experience the feeling of deep throating there is a technique that you can use. You will need your hands for this. Place one hand around the shaft of his penis while you move your mouth up and down on the top half. This stimulates the feeling of deep throating.

    Your hands are a crucial element if you want to know how to give good blow jobs. You can use them to help you provide more stimulation and pleasure for your partner. You can use your hands to explore and play with other parts of his body such as his testicles and his ass.

    When your partner is ready to ejaculate don't stop what you are doing. Keep your strokes regular until he starts ejaculating. Whether or not he cums in your mouth is entirely up to you but make sure that you discuss this beforehand so as not to cause any embarrassment.

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  • by Anonymous on September 18th, 2009

    In response to Anonymous, I've also heard that men don't really care about deep throat that much. To keep it short, lubrication is important, don't suck TOO hard, and don't ignore the balls. Most of all... enjoy it and show that you do!

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  • by Violet on July 25th, 2009

    Violet

    how old are you? You must be 18 to be in the adult section

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  • by Larry on February 4th, 2009

    Larry

    I like to have him sit back with his butt on the edge of a chair with his legs apart, and then I kneel between his legs. This gives me full access to his cock, balls and ass with my mouth and hands. In this position I have good balance, plenty of flexibility and can see his face, so I can see when he is close to cumming and can either slow down or get ready for a mouth full of cum. I never spit and sometimes snowball (pass his cum from my mouth to someone else’s mouth during a kiss) with his wife or my wife.

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  • by Wannaplz on August 25th, 2008

    Wannaplz

    Babe if you don't like salty deep throat and swallow as he shoots, no taste that way.

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  • by Dallas on May 5th, 2008

    Dallas

    You have to stroke his penis back and forth or rubbing the tip can really bring up the heat. I would suggest doin it softly,and if he wants you to do it harder,do it harder. Try it you might be amazed!

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  • by Nate Dog on July 21st, 2009

    Nate Dog

    First you grab the dick, then you gently lick it up and down,
    insert it into the mouth take it slow ... don't rush it
    and before you know it splash....

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  • by Larry on June 15th, 2009

    Larry

    Relax - Have him sit back with his butt on the edge of a chair with his legs apart, and then kneel between his legs. This gives you full access to his cock, balls and ass with your mouth and hands. In this position you have good balance, plenty of flexibility and can see his face, so you can see when he is close to cumming and can either slow down or get ready for a mouth full of cum. Wrap your tongue around the head and make a tight suction, keep a good rhythm & follow his breathing & moaning for the pace that he prefers. When he starts to cum cover the head of his cock with your tongue to direct the flow of his cum into your mouth. Then rock his world. Keep saliva on his cock to lubricate him as much as possible. Use your lips, tongue and hands to gently suck, kiss, and lick to massage his cock, balls, and ass. Listen to his breathing and sighs, watch his face to see and hear when you have “hit the spot”. When he starts to cum put your tongue over the tip of his cock and direct the flow of cum in your mouth with your tongue. Swallow –

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  • by Anonymous on September 18th, 2009

    Anonymous

    In addition to Larry's good answer... i've heard men say a blowjob is not a blowjob if you don't/won't/can't deep-throat. Every girl can deepthroat. there is special trick you can do to mentally tell you're throat muscles "it's ok... don't tighten up and not allow entry... its fine." I learnt from surfing the internet and watching a how to deepthroat videos made by a bunch of girls. Girls... a man will marry you if you can deep-throat. Mine did :)

  • by Anonymous on February 19th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Don't forget the balls. It's fun to roll them around (gently) like dice.

    Then start by licking. Start at the tip of his cock and go all around the circumference. With each circle, take it further into your mouth.

    Keep the tongue in action the whole time as you suck away. Take it in as deeply as you can. Keep it up until he starts to dribble.

    If you're planning intercourse afterwards, then pull away a little before that when it's good and stiff so he has something left for the entry. Otherwise, let him spew all over your mouth if you can handle it.

    It's fun also to have him eat you while you're blowing him. Very erotic!

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  • by I m Out of here on December 24th, 2007

    I m Out of here

    Head First? Try your hand at it, see what comes natural and take criticism from you partner. Learning what's good is part of getting good. And from what I remember it was fun also. I started that road 18 years ago and some things I never changed, others just get better.

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  • by eric on December 23rd, 2007

    eric

    Two hands and a soft mouth. Look me in the eye next time. lol

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  • by pam i am on December 22nd, 2007

    pam i am

    There is a wonderful book called "The Sensuous Woman" by J. Very descriptive, erotic and educational stuff.

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  • Once you are in position and feeling relaxed and comfortable it is time to begin. Don't just rush into things, start by teasing him and getting him aroused. You can use your hands and mouth for this. Start by kissing the inside of his thighs or maybe kissing him from the neck right down to the bottom of his stomach and stopping there. By this stage he will be so turned on and he will be anticipating your next move. You can then begin to stroke and play with his penis using gentle kisses.

    Flicking your tongue back and forth across the head of the penis can also be very arousing but be careful though because this is the most sensitive area of the penis. You can also use your tongue to explore your partners penis. Don't worry about your saliva, it is quite normal to have a lot and you can use it to moisten the penis which will make it easier for your mouth to slide up and down.

    When you have explored him fully the next step is to take his penis into your mouth. Allow your mouth to slide down the shaft of his penis as far as it will go. Don't worry if you can't fit it all in, this takes a lot of practice and is known as deep throating. Trying to do this at an early stage will only cause you to gag. Keep using your tongue the whole time his penis is in your mouth as this will add to his pleasure.

    If you would like your partner to experience the feeling of deep throating there is a technique that you can use. You will need your hands for this. Place one hand around the shaft of his penis while you move your mouth up and down on the top half. This stimulates the feeling of deep throating.

    Your hands are a crucial element if you want to know how to give good blow jobs. You can use them to help you provide more stimulation and pleasure for your partner. You can use your hands to explore and play with other parts of his body such as his testicles and his ass.

    When your partner is ready to ejaculate don't stop what you are doing. Keep your strokes regular until he starts ejaculating. Whether or not he cums in your mouth is entirely up to you but make sure that you discuss this beforehand so as not to cause any embarrassment.

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  • by Wannaplz on August 25th, 2008

    Wannaplz

    Bite, lick, suck, suck, suck some more and repeat. Ride it a while and get it all wet with your cum and let him watch you lick and suck your juices off of him.

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  • by karsonn on August 5th, 2008

    karsonn

    uhm well...ive never tried, but i do know that you suck on the penis...idk be creative, any movement on it will make him aroused, im sure. just make sure to tell him to pull out before he comes...otherwise get ready for a salty flavor...sorry if thats gross but i mean, its true.

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  • by suziesmally on December 25th, 2011

    suziesmally

    Good technique is about finding a good balance between too rough and too soft. We want to be gentle and powerful at the same time.

    Practice on a penis shaped vegetable at home, you want to create a nice medium sucking sensation. Yes, as the saying goes it's like trying to suck a golf ball through a garden hose. I'm sure you get the idea. If you need step-by-step guide, go and read Jack's Blowjob Lessons.

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