You should pay the child support and take responsibility for your child rather than dodging paying up.

You should be more worried about the fact that they can take your driving license from you, or you can be put in jail...or they can garnish your wages. Or they can do all of the above. You are worried over your damn car and letting your kids go without. Nice father! Fathers like you are total losers!!!

Pay the money!

How would you feel if this were done to you? Child care is a job, and not an easy one. If you worked cleaning my house and it took 6-8 hrs, would you want to be paid? Would you deserve to be paid? This person makes a living taking care of other peoples children so they can work, what would happen if eveyone stopped paying for anyones work? You can't buy milk and bread with 0.00. Not to mention how ashamed your children would be of you. So be a grown up..... pay your bills!

Good question. My husband and I have had custody of his 2 kids for the past 3 years. There were many problems when my husband was in jail because of false accusations from their mother. Things were finally straightened out and then she was investigated. Child services finally gave us the kids. He fell behind because of this and because of court fees. He still owes money so if someone has an answer to this I would apreciate it very much. Also, would this affect us in buying a house??

All you people and your comments AMAZE me! Telling this man HE'S a dead beat! Wow, that's a laugh! As for not getting paid for the work you do, yes, he should have to pay something, but what about the woman? NO ONE made her spread her legs and have a kid either, she's more responsible since she had the child! When does she get held responsible for her choices? Everyone automatically blames the man! You should all be ashamed of yourselves! Have a kid, you be prepared to pay, with OR without help...PERIOD!!! And before you say anything about that, I'm a woman, with a dead-beat ex who hasn't paid a dime to my son in over 7 years! But I am taking care of my son, I had him, I love him and don't need a man to support him when I'm perfectly capable myself. Not to mention I support my step-son whose mother tries to get every dime she can from my current husband. Some women don't deserve their children, let alone child support. System is flawed and so are people that think like you all do! To answer the original question: NO, they can't take your car if it's in both names, your current spouse in not responsible for your debts.Villalvazog: he needs to petition the court to have the fines reduced since he had no ability to pay in jail. You could always buy a house without your husband, depending on which state you live in. Luck to all. Women who deserve the support, and men who are unfairly beaten down just because they are men!

All women care about is money. They all want to live off the state, get free stuff from men and be lazy. When a guy dosent want to be wit ha women the women does EVERYTHING in here power to hurt the man and the only way to do this is to get at his wallet. They get to be lazy, get money they didn't work for and then get free tax money and welfare. I think if we shoot all the fat loser moms abusing the system the work would be a better place. I am single man raising my daughter alone, meaning I work, pay the bills and take care of the house just fine without taking money from other. Lazy ass women, makes me sick, grow some pride and release any free money you get comes from the hard work of others. And yes, they can take your car. State loves to get free money too.

Dang, bitter much girlsarelazy? Stop putting all women in one category. You are not taking money from a woman who helped to create a child and who should be helping to take care of her child. That's your dumb business! Women (or men in your case --very much an exception) do not make these kids by themselves! I work hard to take care of my twin daughters as a single mom. My ex tried to run from his responsibilities for a few years then came back into the picture saying he wanted to be a dad to his kids. Well, things didn't work out with me and him so he runs off again. You can't just accept your responsibilities and then run off from them when you feel like it. I work hard and take care of my girls whether I am sick or not. I can't take time off or take a vacation from being a mom. And the same responsibility should be given to a man who is a father. He shouldn't be able to skip out just because the going gets tough. I work hard to give these kids all that they need and some of what they want. I deserve to get some help from their father; he is not around emotional and physically, but he will definitely give some financial support. And honey, if you are working hard and you get child support you are not getting "free money."