You havent really given a lot of info, such as why you broke up and such but heres what would probably help. First off its normal for people to want to know what happened when things end, so you will be justified with this as your background if you do ask questions. *Why did you break up with me? This is the most important question you could ask, it determines if it was your fault, if theres emotions still there, if you have a chance etc etc etc. *Do you ever miss us? Depeneding on the way you carry yourself and the ending of this relationship this question can be a suicide or a very good question. If he misses you or still wants to be with you then he will see this as an opportunity to confess feelings for you. If he was irritated by you or ddoes not like you anymore he may embarassingly tell you no or he will bluntly and harshly tell you no. *Find out what hes been up to. Its normal for people to want to look for new people right after breaking up with someone, IF they arnt feeling bad about it. They will enjoy the single life but then they will get over it after awhile. If hes looking for new girls you may have lost your chance. There are plenty of questions to ask but you just have to kind of see their reactions and know what theyre feeling. Sometimes its just as hard for a girl to see what a guy is feeling as it is for a guy. The best way to approach this is keep calm, dont seem anxious and dont give off the look of desperation. You dont have to act like you totally arnt into him, unless he really misses you then that could drive him nuts. If you act calm relax and well composed then itll give you the dignity to ask the questions you want to ask without giving the impression that you 'need' him. Needing people is a turn off. It makes you look clingy and like you arnt mature enough to take care of yourself, to love yourself etc etc. Dont embarass yourself. Worse thing you could do, to lose him not get him back and make him pity you, maybe even detest you. Also be ready to accept defeat. Itll soften the blow.

Come right out and just ask him whats on your Heart..........M.C.S.

Just ask why he broke up with you. It sounds like his feelings for you have changed. Perhaps he met someone else. Just ask him to be honest and then you accept what he has to say. Just remember you can not make anyone love you.

first- dont ask alot, no more than 7 or 8 questions. second- just ask him straight up why? and if he says it was you, tell him you'll change and that you really want to be with him, if you still want him. third- expect the unexpected, he might say stuff you don't know or understand at the time. and lastly don't get worked up or seem desperate but show that you still love him.

what exactly does the person who broke up with you go through after the break up if you both had a good relationship? what are they feelings and how many times do they wonder if they might have made the wrong choice? and i am connecting this to my question that i wrote about my ex of 4 years and how i want to ask him alot of questions... thats my question

after 4 years he has not tried to contact you by Letter, phone, E-mail nothing thats your answer right there. Sometimes people can say a lot by saying nothing at all. if u know what i mean