i would take her back if she wants to come back, but there will always be that sense...

one of her girlfriends or one of her boyfriends? ...if it's a girl, it more than likely meant nothing.

I would give her the time that she needs. I have done the same thing and I was the same age. Granted I had only been dating this person about a month when it happend and it was a mutual friend, and he was begging me to come back to him. Give her space. Forgive her. She made out withs someone she did not have sex. Granted I think I would say diffrent if it was a guy but she obviously feels bad about it because she told you the next day and is not lying about it, like a guy would try to do. Repect her honesty, that took guts

it depends on how long she wants her break to be if its over 2 months then no dont take her back cuz thats more than a break. but if its befor then then yeah take her back cuz at least she told u the very next day about what had happend and she felt bad about it. it would have been another story if she wouldnt have said anything.

If she figures things out in a short time, not several months, I say take her back. Alcohol can make people do things they didn't mean to, and she might just be embarassed by what happened and needs to develop strength to get past this. Expect more "bumps" in the relationship as it grows. It seems all good relationships manage to develop little "tests" and if you can work past the bumps, you got a good thing going!

I would have to say that the relationship is in serious trouble, she is having doubts and the break is just another way of saying I want to have my cake and eat it. Let her go. I admire her honesty but if she really cared for and loved you, she would not have allowed herself to put in a situation where she ended up making out with this friend. There is such a thing as boundaries. Alcohol may be a catalyst for the relaxation of inhibitions but it is not an excuse for being unfaithful in word or deed. As a woman if you had confessed you had made out with a friend the night before, and then tried to excuse it away with alcohol and then hit me with final whammy of and I think we need a break to sort out where the relationship was going I would have to say my response would be take as long as you like because I won’t be here when or if you come back. However if you said you made out and don’t know why you had done something so stupid and that it mean nothing and it was me you loved and wanted to be with. want to work on building my trust again and it will not be a reoccurring situation and that we would openly communicate with each other if you truly felt that the relationship was not going anywhere then I would probably go through a gamut of emotions, hurt, betrayal, anger etc and maybe just maybe I would be more open to working it out. It may sound harsh but her expecting you to wait around whilst she works out her feelings rather than wanting to be with you and work through the situation is not a good sign. I have seen girlfriends who have done this type of thing to their partners and often they are not being honest with themselves or their partners and keep them hanging around until they either find someone else or don’t and want to try again because they don’t like being single. Not good.