ANSWERS: 9
  • It's a very good thing you told her. her reaction is normal, too. If she loves you, she will forgive you. After all, it was a break, wasn't it? She'll get over it.
  • Boy oh boy. She might forgive you, but be forewarned.....she will never forget, or let you forget that she hasn't forgotten. Everytime y'all have a disagreement, out will come rolling the old "Oh yeah? well, you slept with that *%$##%!!!" (unless she's an angel and not mean and petty, like me) One of the reasons she's probably so upset is because despite being "broken up" what she really wanted was for you to be miserable, desperately lonely, aching for her, unable to eat, sleep, work, think---and what did you do? You slept with someone else!!! In her mind, that means she never really meant that much to you anyway, if you could get over it THAT quickly.You say you love her, but you SLEPT with another girl! Didin't she mean ANYTHING to you? after THREE years, it took you only WEEKS to forget her? Was she prettier? was she better in bed? You bastard. Aren't girls evil??? It's our specialty. Good Luck. I hope you deserve it.........
  • Haha thanks Meg. I thoroughly enjoyed reading that. But the thing was is that I was miserable, lonely, aching, and losing everything. If my life was an arch, she had just taken away my keystone. I had been friends with this other girl for a while and I knew she already liked me. She comforted me and we went out with friends. I wasn't drunk or anything but still, one thing led to another. I still didn't even sleep with this other girl! I feel like I should've with everything like this happening! BUt what happened was we were naked and ready and as soon as I was in I imediatly pulled out and started freakin out. I just felt so horrible. I felt so... dirty. Plus it wasn't getting over her it was trying to get some closure in an unhealthy manner kinda...
  • a break is time to care for each other even more than ever. cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship, and you say you love her but if you did then why cheat. you should get on your hands and knees and ever thing she ask of you (of course within reason) so you can repent for what you did. i wouldn't give another shot and kick you in the balls.
  • Personally as a woman I would have to understand because there was a "break" I would be a little upset but, would have to get over it because it was a "break". Hope that helps
  • If you was broken up in that time, I don't get what she's so pissed about. I mean, you guys were split up, you didn't think you was getting back together to you slept with someone, right? Big deal. Well, unless it was her friend or sister or someone close to her. Then I could see why she's pissed. Otherwise, no.
  • i know how she feels...it hurts so bad...but she will get over it becasue the two of you were broke up..give it time...she'll be back...she came back the 2nd time didnt she?
  • OMG I feel sorry for the other girl!!!! you felt dirty?? think about her! you used her to get over your girlfrien and you are talking about it so casually.. do you even realise that? YOU ARE SICK. But your gf should get over it
  • OK you broke up and you had sex with someone else... where does the cheating part come in? Who broke off the relationship in the first place?

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