ANSWERS: 17
  • You love the sex you are getting now. In five years, it won't be so much fun anymore. When you are changing his diapers and pushing his wheelchair. Look what happened with Anna Nicole!
  • Tell them straight. Sooner or later you would have to tell them anyways, so it's useless to dilly-dally. I suggest you bring your s/o when you announce it.
  • 1st of all, how did you meet? How did that conversation start? Well, you're 18 & apparently in the business of learning grown-up lessons. This is a big one for you right here, slapping you right across the face. Hey, you can love whoever you want & no one can tell you different. HOWEVER, your parents also have the right to reject whoever they think is bad for you. My guess is that they won't exactly accept this person with open arms. With that in mind, are you prepared to fight for and have this relationship without your parents' involvement or approval? They won't like everybody you date, you know, and there are some things people just don't need or want to know...
  • Pardon me but what's wrong with the old guy can't he find a girl a little more age appropriate? A forty year age difference is a little much. That said what does your "boy" friend suggest surely this mature male has some ideas.
  • The two of you invite your parents out to a nice restaurant for a pleasant dinner.
  • umm sorry but what the heck does a 38 yr. old man want with an 18 yr. old girl. Only one thing I can think of...sex...and he probably does not want to go to jail so he does not have even a younger girl.
  • HOLY CRUD!!!! #1 dont kill, or tell your parents #2 trust me-your version of "in love" and his version of "in love"=totally different #3 spend alot more time with your girlfriends...doing stupid 18yr old stuff. #4 think about it....he was older than you are now, when you were born. see any infants that do it for you? of course you dont. he shouldnt either. please..2 words "DREW PETERSON"
  • This is almost like being in love with your Grandpa and for him almost like being a pedophile. For Gods sake do not tell your parents until this weird situation has been going on long enough for him to collect his pension and you to reach the age of consent. Is this guy crazy. This sounds like a very predatory situation to me. Soon instead of sex you will be changing diapers and you will still be a young women.
  • By mail.
  • tell them not to worry,you are in the relationship for his money.
  • Yeah, I like older guys, but the age difference is too much. Get out while you can and before you become more attached. If you want children one day, he won't be able to do that for you. It's not easy whether you are in love or think you are in love, but really, get out now. Him wanting to date someone so young should prove to you that he is not right for you.
  • HOLY SHIT GIRL...that is crazy. ok i dont know how they are going to take it. How do you feel when you two are out together? Do people think he is your dad? Is that weird for you? how old is your dad?
  • if you're really sure, then just tell them. it's pretty far out there but what the heck. Just remember that in the unlikely event it works out when you're 40 he'll be pushing 80.
  • This guy is using you as a trophy for his ego. He will get tired of you and dump you. As far as your parents go, you are 18 and therefore an adult you don't have to say anything. If I were them I'd be concerned. If I were you i'd wonder what his motive is for dating someone so young. To me, it seems you are just a plaything for him to brag about. Sorry but that's how I see it.
  • better yet, how are you going to deal with meeting HIS parents???
  • It's nearly 5 months since you posted this question. I am extremely curious as to how things are going. Are you still with this older man? And did you ever tell your parents?
  • well i'm with a man 20 yrs older nd i'm 18. i had the same problem but not as large a gap. i let my dad nd him meet 1st as he was just a "friend" nd luckily they got on, so i told my dad. he had concerns but knew i had my head screwed on. i've been with him for a year now nd still very happy.keep me up-dated with how things are going for you, good luck

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