ANSWERS: 40
  • Yes you can and he can too. But you should not.
  • absolutely but as Mick Jagger once sang, "Don't you play with me 'cause you're playing with fire."
  • Please turn off your caps, your shouting, his wife can probably hear! I can love my dream car, a Jag, but the price is still to high!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Yes, if he's married to me, he can love me and I can love him. Otherwise you're asking for trouble.
  • From afar. Anything else is uncivilized. :) ehhehe
  • You can love a married man, and he can love you. However, it will probably result in much more pain than necessary, emotionally for everyone, and, thanks to the rejected wife, lots of physical pain for the man. It's possible, but dangerous.
  • Yes, but it sure is going to piss his wife off!
  • Aye.. indeed. Respect though is another issue.
  • No becaue as long as he is married unless it is to you then what you have is lust and not love. At least on his part anyway. If you are thinking of starting a relationship with a maried man I would advise you not to. I know right now you probably feel like you are inlove and can't live without him. In time however you will realize just how wrong it is to be with someone who has taken a vow to love honor and cherish someone else.
  • If you're married to him, why not?
  • I am very close friends with a few married men, and I love them as friends. And they I know they love me the same way. If you are talking about romantic love you are now stepping into a dangerous arena. You are now messing around in a third persons life (more if there are children). You are welcome to cause harm to your life, and his if he is willing, but you need to think about everyone else involved.
  • I love a married man. But then again I am his wife.
  • Ya. some people get married before they are ready to.
  • You shouldn't and no. Married is married, until the day he's legally separated, don't even let yourself get all mushy and clingy.
  • if your his wife i hope you do
  • why not? as long as you are happy with him. Love comes in unexpected person once you feel it just treasure it. the most importan you've been happy for your life
  • Sure he can. But what can he gives you?
  • you can do whatever it is you want, so can he. is it a good idea? NO.
  • I sure hope so.
  • Yes. It can happen. Many couples can disentegrate where neither are ready to admit that it's over. If you two are in love, then maybe it's time for him to admit that his relationship with his wife may in fact be over...
  • A married man CAN love another woman and yet still be his wife . Basically he is just a human being with emotions,feelings, strength and weaknesses. As I am writing this, I am being loved by a married. I am single and he is 11 years my senior. In return, I loved him too. But most importantly, I have to understand his situation and stand by him in whatever the situation may be. I am NOT a bitch..but someone who understand his situation. It may not sound fair on my side as we both love each other and yet we have our limitations. I pray that things would work well with him and his wife. I would be happy if he is.
  • ok, this answer may upset you but i'm gonna be honest. i've known a friend who went with married men and from experience i can say that most people who choose to be with someone that's 'taken' tend to have really low self-esteem. think about it. i personally would NEVER be with someone who was 'taken' not necessarily because of morals but because i don't feel the need to be with someone who's attention is not 100% on me. If a guy is even THINKING about someone else- i'm gone!! fact is, YES you can love someone/they can love you even if married- i.e. it's physically possible BUT how often do men leave their wives for the other woman?! and if he had respect for you he wouldn't have put you in that situation in the first place (saying he couldn't help it cos of how much he loved you usually just means he had too much 'lust' for you!) without respect there is no love. respect yourself first - say no then wait and see if he 'respects' you enough to leave his wife- then you'll know it's probably love!
  • yes, you can love a married man if you want and of course he will love you, if you give him every thing he wants with no restrictions whenever he is around, but I'm sure he probably loves his wife just as much or more or he would get a divorce, some men need constant attention an if you were to hold back relations with him, he may find someone else to fullfill his needs, does she know about the two of you, ask yourself would he be willing to lose what he has on the other side for you, if he loves you as much as you think, he would be able to leave that life and start a new with you, and if you were to get married could you handle him being with another woman on the side behind your back. love is a very misused word and can be used out of personal gain.
  • Yes..but ask yourself..If you were on the other end of a stick..would you like that..This is a married man, a man who took a vow - does this sound like the type of guy you want in your life? Many men and women are breaking up homes with fantasy life..NOBODY wants to work at it - hearts are being broken - my wife did it to me and many other people here are suffering..PLEASE with so many SINGLE men out there - why even go down a painful role, especially like mine where there are kids involve..Why even wreck havoc for love that can be found with someone who is free to give you all the love you can expect. May God Bless you..Stay away and you will live GUILT free and his wife will live GRIEF free..Dont break any marriage - even if that isnt your objective..
  • well if that married man is someone who detest to go hm, rather die drinking dead then making way hm, rather spend all his free time with u then going hm, then i'm sure theres no reason why not to love him. especially if both of you share the same frequency.
  • Yes you can love a married man, but can you trust a married man who is married and is having an affair? He can love you too I believe but with what he is doing on his wife he could allways do the same on you.
  • he can love me,but i wont love him as i am not that way inclined
  • This is pretty easy to do ... provided you aren't married to each other, in which case it's nearly impossible.
  • yeah, if you want to and if he wants to...
  • yes, and I don't recommend persuing this...lots of pain and heartache. You can also love someone and never see them again...it won't kill anyone.
  • I cant. I wouldnt want to be involved with a married man.
  • Yes, if you are Married to him.
  • If you are his wife, sure. Otherwise, you both are disrespecting her and lying to her.
  • You can only be his mistress. He has no reason to "love" you.
  • Nowhere does it say you can love only one. It is possible to truly love several. Man was not made to be monogamous ever.
  • from what I understand most little girls love their daddies and their daddies are usually married to someone else it's just all a matter of learning what's appropriate and acceptable. I love chocolate but I don't steal someone else's.
  • You can only be his mistress. He has no reason to "love" you.
  • When I was married I never wanted to be with a woman other than my own wife.
  • Only if you are married to each other. Otherwise it is NOT love.

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