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by altgirl84 on December 22nd, 2007
Other than using 'slutty' in hot talk, if men view it as slutty, they're assholes, sexists pigs, and misogynists. They should see it as a very selfless act and be grateful for it. I hate when I've heard some guys say things like 'She's such a slut, she sucks dick' blah blah blah. Yeah cause I'm sure the guy didn't enjoy it huh? How dare some guys be the receiver in it, experience immense pleasure from it, then turn around and call the girl slutty/degrade her. Sorry for ranting lol and I'm not directing this answer to the poster, but it's just my view.
by Firemarshall on July 30th, 2008
If it's on the first date, yep you're a slut. If it's in an established relationship, it's just foreplay or another great way of pleasing your partner.
by Wanderer on December 15th, 2007
Not in the slightest.... after all you would probably like the guy to go down on you and that isn't 'slutty'. It is all part of a normal healthy sex life.. and if you enjoy giving as much as receiving then that is just fine.
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by MargaretMcGhee on February 25th, 2008
Certainly not! It's an act of charity. And with some girls it's an act of chastity.
by PEGGY on November 3rd, 2009
i am a slut,i suck cock everyday,and dont care what anyone thinks!!!!!do it and dont worry about it.
by a11 on December 20th, 2007
If it happens within minutes of meeting the lady, then yes. Otherwise, no.
by Veldingst on March 21st, 2008
most men don't veiw it that way. i don't, to be honest. most men find it 'spicy'.
by My Favourite Life on January 17th, 2008
Nope. It is seen as desirable.
by Pointeman1 on January 8th, 2008
Depends on the circumstances in which it's given. If it's done in a back alley then I would consider it slutty but only because of the surroundings. If the same thing happened in a nice bedroom setting then I would consider it quality sex.
by sunshine on November 29th, 2009
if so, I must be a slut and that would mean that pretty much every woman I know must be one as well.
by Anonymous on February 25th, 2009
I don't see it as slutty at all. I could be viewed at that if you're not long into the relationship. But other than that. No not really.
by D.J. on October 14th, 2008
Not at all. Blowjobs can be slutty, or they can be very prude. Some girls give very slutty blowjobs and they're great, and some girls give slutty blowjobs and they're lame. It's all about attitude and willingness. Some prude girls can give incredible head, and some prude girls make a blowjob a boring, unfullfilling experience. But I do not think blowjobs are slutty by definition, just like I don't think a guy is a pervert just because he licks pussy.
by MrJosh on October 14th, 2008
No, unless you give every guy a blow job.
by Anonymous on September 28th, 2008
Not to me. If men say they enjoy it so much, and are not telling a lie, then they should respect and admire the person who gives them what they want.
THAT WOULD BE THE RIGHT THING TO DO>
It is not fair to do otherwise. The person who gives you your favorite salad, favorite drink, favorite meal, favorite wine,favorite desert is someone who you would praise and maybe even admire. If someone gives to you your favorite sex act should you not be equally grateful?
by loopss on January 14th, 2008
i agree with the time situation, if she sucks you off the first day you meet her, she's slutty, but i love to get blown! !!!
by Sketchy Mess Jeoffory on December 7th, 2007
It is probably viewed a little less slutty than having intercourse. Most men are happy to get either, though.
by kwms09 on May 9th, 2009
No they are super hot
by Randy D on November 21st, 2009
Is kissing slutty? It can be or can not be, depending on the situation.
Is sexual intercourse slutty? It can be or can not be, depending on the situation.
Is anal intercourse slutty? It can be or can not be, depending on the situation.
Is any act of oral sex slutty? It can be or can not be, depending on the situation.
Is any sexual act slutty? It can be or can not be, depending on the situation.
The answer to your question is not a simple yes or no.
by Candi on November 22nd, 2009
it is if its on a first date, other wise I dont think so
by Cat on November 22nd, 2009
I don't view oral sex as any different than any other sex act with respect to sluttiness, except perhaps in degree of intimacy. Deep kissing within the first 5 minutes of meeting, a blow job in the first hour, intercourse before exchanging names.. those are all slutty behaviours, but none of those acts are in the least bit slutty in other contexts.
by away on February 25th, 2009
Not to this man. It's a beautiful act of love.
by Jonathan Eve on February 25th, 2009
I think there great.
by mikestrike on June 21st, 2010
Not at all, it is the most intimate way to make love, and when you have a good woman who swallows, you should worship her and go down on her.
by smith2267@yahoo.com on November 28th, 2008
Um, from your profile pic, you seem to be a guy...so maybe you need to be asking gay men
by alieninastrangeland on February 25th, 2008
If done as sport sucking then I guess the person would be seen as slutty. After all who would want a stranger's dick in her mouth. Yuch.
by Anonymous on March 15th, 2010
if ur in a relationship, it's not. if not, it is.
by MinervaP on March 6th, 2010
What a question. Well, with the puritan element it might be considered slutty.Too bad for those Puritan guys.
by baseballfan248 on February 20th, 2010
it all depends. if they suck you the first time meeting them then they are. there isn't anything wrong with that because they usually give great bj
by SS4586 on February 24th, 2010
no guys love it
by slave hecate on March 6th, 2010
if so i have been a slut since the day i turned 16. how is it slutty?
by badwitch70 on August 6th, 2008
I'd need a visual first before I can honestly answer that for you, let me know when you want a valid answer.
by Floater on August 21st, 2008
Yes President Clinton-IT IS SEX ! No different than a fuck on the first date. I think I would consider both to be a bit slutty. But in an established relationship, no different than any other kind of sex or foreplay.
by Chris the other white meat on October 14th, 2008
It all depends how it goes down. But yes it can be perceived as being slutty in the right situation. Like on the first date with someone you may or may not see ever again or with a random guy, or even with a person who you know will not reciprocate your actions.
by zwatcher on November 30th, 2008
most guys love slutty
by Braman on November 30th, 2008
Not to me, I love women who give a good blow job. The faster she can make the guy blow, the better you are.
by BABYGURL_LEX101 on September 23rd, 2008
idk.cuz if i tell my friends that i wanna give my bf a blow job then they will think im a hoe/slut and im not that kind of person, but when i ask my bf he got really happy so i gues guys lik 4 u 2 go dwn on them! but i lik 4 guys 2 go dwn on me 2! so its ok as long as they dnt go bragging around or saying ur a slut/hoe,ETC.
by Rabbit on August 28th, 2008
I she blows you within minutes of meeting her, or on the same day, YOU are definitely a slut!
by Wannaplz on August 25th, 2008
I agree with MM, it could be an act of chastity, saving her other parts for marriage. I went to school with several girls who would give or anal, but never vaginal and had a blast doing it.
by John John on August 27th, 2008
Its viewed as necessary
by AnsweredQuestions on January 7th, 2010
My wife was a virgin when we married so you cannot call her a slut. She's given me hundreds or maybe thousands of blow jobs. She's become masterful at it over the years.
Guys, have you ever had a woman give you a really bad blowjob?
by Don't Piss Me Off! on January 23rd, 2012
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Ladies what is your favorite way to receive oral sex and why
by Robbie68 on January 29th, 2012
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Question for guys : Would you suck a cock?
by truthfollower on January 31st, 2012
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I've been eatn my ladies pussy an she be passing out. Have this ever happen 2 anybody?
by Hott-Rodd on January 31st, 2012
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Ladies, if you met a guy with a 7" tongue, and he begged you to facesit him, would you? And where would you want that tongue?
by Queeningboy69 on January 29th, 2012
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Well you are exactly right altgirl....and I'm a guy. I do love "slutty" in hot talk tho.
by writemyselfaletter on December 2nd, 2009