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I don't think you should be concerned -- there's nothing wrong with a checkin phone call after 11 months. But bottom line is -- you can't control what the outcome will be -- maybe he will re-befriend his ex, or maybe they will want to get together again -- that's just the way life goes -- sometimes you get a heartache... and you just have to move on in that case.
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It's a tough call. This happened to me about a month ago. After 9 months of being together, I knew my boyfriend was talking to his ex, but he assured me nothing was happening and they were only friends. A few weeks later he ended our relationship because he still felt that he had feelings for her and wanted to give it another shot. Needless to say that didn't work out, and now he thinks he can fix things with me. It's a long painful road, but you can't ever really tell what's going to happen until you go down it. All you can do is confront him about it without attacking him or accusing him of anything, and see where it goes from there.
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Ask him what they talked about. If he asks sketchy or is super tight-lipped about it, then be concerned. If he tells you what they talked about and you're still jealous, then follow your heart. Remember, your gut is always right...
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Callous as this may sound, these things happen. It could just as easily have been you under different circumstances. It's one of the knocks life deals us, and the sooner we learn to cope with them, the better for us. You are stronger and wiser for the experience. That's the positive side.
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