Im sick of my wife not giving me a blow job i get a BJ like twice a year tops no joke. i would prefer that better than sex. and when she does go down its half ass 2 mintues. how do i get her to do it like twice a week atleast WTF. what do i do
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Wow I'm so sorry :( Oral sex is one of the basics and something to be expected in a relationship (giving and receiving, can I ask if you give her oral sex?). I'd suggest you have a good talk with her about it BUT make sure not to inflect any anger/greed/impatience/immaturity into your words or voice. It has to be serious and open. You can ask her what she doesn't like about it and talk about that. You can let her know it would please you very much. And some things I'd suggest you'd do is to maybe buy some flavoured lube to see if she'd like it more then. Or things like whipped cream, melted chocolate, etc. And I also think that you should either return the favour (if you're not already) or offer to do something for her that she really likes. It should be equal give and receive. And if she does do it more, make sure you tell her how much she's pleasing you and how beautiful and sexy she looks doing it, compliments can go a long way. Good luck :)
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my wife is ten years younger then me and goes down on me every time i ask and then some,sometimes she wakes me up to a good bj,i have the best wife ever,she makes it last and goes nice and slow,she even cleans me up when im done,shes the best,what im telling you is find a new wife..... good luck
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Have you let her know how much you enjoy it? Most of the time if my man lets me know how much he likes it (both after the fact and during, but especially after), then I will want to pleasure him more often, especially if he moans and such.
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I'm in the same boat. She acts like a little pre-cum is the worst thing on the planet. (but its ok when I bury my face in her unshaven puss.....) I hate fucking double standards. I think its time to find a professional.
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Women nee d to be used regularly to keep them in full working order...yours is now broken. Replace her...and make sure the other one is used properly and not allowed an opinion.
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I would talk to her honestly and tell her how much you really do enjoy receiving oral sex. If she doesn't feel comfortable doing it or has some aversion to it, maybe it's from a past experience. Or maybe she is not proficient giving bjs. Encourage her to read on it or to see videos. She may want to give you what you want if she really knew how important is it to you and your sex life.
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In order for her to do that, she would have to enjoy it. Why don't you try and find out what it is about satisfying you orally that she is opposed to. You say she does it half ass? There is a reason for that. Could it be that she doesn't know how to pleasure you orally? Have you ever stroked yourself while she is working on the head? Try talking to her and telling her what she is doing right. Be prepared for whatever she tells you, like it makes my jaws hurt or whatever. If you are watching alot of porn, it could be that she feels she will never live up to your expectations. Talking to her about it is the only way. Good Luck to you, Happy Communicating
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First you'll need to take a little trip to your neighborhood sex toy store. Buy leg and arm restrains, a gag mask and maybe some nipple clamps just for the hell of it. On the way out of the sex shop see the guy standing on the corner and ask him for a little something to knock a person out. He should be able to hook you up. Once home make a few drinks to get her feeling good. Later into the evening slip the mickey and give it about 30 minutes to starts it's affects. Once out you should be able to use the leg and arm straps to secure her into place. don't forget the choke mask, this will hold her mouth open. Go ahead and do your thing. Once finished you need to run like hell and don't look back for at least three weeks. I suggest some flowers to ease the situation once your ready to return.
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Don't blame the hammer when it misses the nail, sport. If you aren't man-anough to handle the woman and have your demands met, then you don't deserve to have your demands met. It's possible that you foolishly chose a woman that won't deliver on what you want the way you want it. However, you coming here and whining about how you aren't getting what you want pretty much says it all. Go find a dominant woman with an oral fetish, because you aren't ready to run a relationship.
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Have you tried talking with her about how you feel, in a non-threatening manner?
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Maybe if you spoke to the lady about it?
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you sound like my husband... ha ha ha...
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I mean, a woman who does not give oral sex often, is likely to be like that the rest of her life. I have a similar situation. I've been living 4 years with my girlfriend and she does it not very often. In this 4 years she has only done it 2 times the complete job. And whenever she does it, she does it for just 1-2 minutes. I'm so frustrated; but man, I've learned to accept it. the sex is great, we love eachother, bla bla bla. But the fact that I accept it, doesn´t mean that I won't look for it. That's why I have cheated on her around 5 times; and I've got what I wanted. Blowjob without begging for it. I do not feel guilty at all for doing this. we have talked about the oral sex, but there are no results. so, I mean, I can not quit feeling the great pleasure of receiving a BJ; that's why I will go on cheating my girlfriend without any regrets. My advice is, if you don't get what you want at home, obtain it somewhere else and this will keep you in a good state of mind.
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damn bro i echo your feelings completely! i just wish i knew what to do! my problem is, she used to do it a little more often (in 11 years) but now i practically have to beg. i think she used to just do it becuase i liked it, but she never let me know she didnt like it. actually, she told me she liked it! now she tells me she doesnt! i've done nothing different! she basically lied to me before. if she would've told me in the beginning she didnt like it, maybe we could've worked something out.
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You need to talk to her and you also need to please her oraly, women enjoy oral just as much if not more than a man does, Don't listen to all these sleazy men and their stupid answers, because women don't like men like that.
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I was in the same boat and then it came to me, maybe if I stopped going down on her she would at least ask why. and I was right about two months of sex and that's about 2-3 times a week of me just jumping on and jumping off and she was like hey whats up! so I let her know what was up! I told her I was tired on giving and not receiving and now its about once a week she gives me a bj. so maybe it will work for you because I think women like getting head better than we do.
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You should talk to her about it. And see if there is a reason it's not happening, or if it's just not something she realizes is a problem. Tip: when you're talking to her don't say stupid stuff about how she does it "half-ass" and "WTF", because chances are that you will get what you want even less. And I agree with whoever said you should do the same for her if you expect her to do it for you.
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My ex-wife gave me loads of blowjobs when we were just bf/gf but after getting married was not soo keen on it. I found it really frustrating as she was excellent with her tongue. She also stopped swallowing. It could be hard to persuade her to give you more.
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I hope you giving oral sex if you expect it. Woman like it just as much if not more. I agree with most of the answers you aleady have. She has probably had a bad experience at some time. You should probably asure her you wont cum in her mouth. I enjoy giving my man a blow job and like the same as well. I refuse to let him get off in my mouth but I can still make it very good for him without that. Let her know you enjoy it very much. She can please you all the way without tasting your seman. If you havent already, maybe you should try going down on her and pleasing her totally. Most woman wont admit thats what they really like. Be homest with each other and dont hold out. Try getting throat numbing cream for her.
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I would recommend trying this product...it's called Oral Formula One. My husband followed the simple instuctions and now I perform oral on him all the time. It gives me what I want (what every woman wants really) and he gets what he wants. It's pretty awesome and so easy to implement...try it out. If your wife or girlfriend has ever cringed at the idea of giving oral, this product will change her mind very qucikly. It definitely changed my mind. Here's the link http://www.oralformulaone.com/ Hope this helps!
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You can either romance her with flowers and dinner in candlelight when she comes home and wait for her on the sofa naked or you can find you a mistress to take care of that problem for you and she will do everything you ever dream of! Now if you don't believe me there are 95% of men who has one!!!!!
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This worked for me and my husband. It's a step-by-step guide put out by Clint Alexander called "Oral Formula One"....it shows you how to get your wife or girlfriend to give you head on a regualr basis. It's the only program I know of that actually works. Check it out http://www.OralFormulaOne.com
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I had the same problem with my first wife. I eventually gave up trying a got my BJ's elsewhere. She loved me to eat her out,though. Not fair.
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