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by kino on December 6th, 2007

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I want to be on top, but i don't know how to. i dont want to do it wrong and make him think i suck. I guess i can't get the rythm.i kno this is stupid but i dont kno if you literally go up and down or if u just push up and down?

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  • by Jane on December 6th, 2007

    Jane

    ahh how cute. um you can do up and down or what i like to do is *insert* and then just move back and forth....feels good for both and it feels best for you...that is how most girls learn how to climax

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  • by APACHEmeansENEMY on December 6th, 2007

    APACHEmeansENEMY

    This question would be best sorted out by experimenting with your partner. there are no rules or fool proof ways of doing this. Why? because everyone has unique tastes when it comes to how they like their sex.

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  • by kgirlstyle on December 2nd, 2008

    kgirlstyle

    for YEARS i sucked at being on top, once i got up there i didn't move! it was hella cold up there and awkward, lol..but one day i had a lil too much to drink..got on top(not right on top of his pelvis but a lil higher to create friction) and moved back and forth grinding my hips, and he seemed to LOVE IT!!! ever since, i've been on top more often..and surprisingly it feels good too..don't give up..i thought i was hopeless but now i think i'm an expert haha

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  • by alieMUAH on September 14th, 2008

    alieMUAH

    you know what, i always wanted to try new things.. but i was always too scared to or shy or something. finally i stopped worying about and started experimenting. I asked a guy i was with to tell me what he likes and to teach me things, HE LOVED IT. the main thing you need to get out of your head is that you'll not do a good job, if a guy has you on top of him, no matter what hes going to be happy.. they don't really judge as harsh as we think.. as long as they're getting laid they are happy.

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  • by BeenThereWillShare on September 15th, 2008

    BeenThereWillShare

    you slide, baby, you slide.
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    You do it the way it makes you feel good. Roll your hips just like your'e underneath. Only now you have more control.
    (I don't think he'll say you suck but if he does smack him)

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  • by LollypopGirl03 on May 19th, 2008

    LollypopGirl03

    I suck on top too man. It's like he starts moving up and down and i don't know if i should let him do his thing, or because i'm on top work it too. Then when i decide to grind with him i never have the same beat pattern. I literally had a guy to tell me to go on top, and not even two minutes later tell me to get off. Don't feel bad. My advice is toally stay out of the cowgirl on top area. You can be sexy and kinky on bottom too. Try moaning to let him know he's doing good. Pull his hair. Claw his back. Bite his lip. Anyone of those would probably feel better than the world's best girl on top.

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  • by Ashe on May 11th, 2008

    Ashe

    Start small, I find its about being embarressed... Climb on top and let him do his thing, try that a couple times and then later on when that gets boring try sitting up a little- you will get the rhythm when it gets intense, once he starts grinding just try to start and remember what hes doing and at one point sit up and continue with what he was doing. I am with the same man for 3 1/2 years and still have trouble getting on top, I could have thrown up the first time. I am very sexually shy too. But once you are on top and you get into it it gets easier.

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  • by LeeLeeLee943 on June 17th, 2010

    LeeLeeLee943

    Oh I forgot!
    Sometimes it can slip out, just put in inside again and keep the action on! And watch out about being to hard in your moves, cause it can get out, and you could hurt him, so be gentle untill you get more practice even though it has nothing to do with expertise!

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  • by Sasha Button on December 6th, 2007

    Sasha Button

    Anyway you want. Its your sex life.

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  • by graduated pixie getting pissed on December 6th, 2007

    graduated pixie getting pissed

    Jeez I didn't think I could still blush. You can mix it up too up and down, back and forth, you can rotate too (circular motion). Since each guy is sized different start with small movements and work toward bigger to get a "feel" for how far you can go. Be honest with him. Tell him this is a first for you and I bet he helps!

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  • by RockRchick on December 6th, 2007

    RockRchick

    The best way to find out is just get on and try it out. Youll know what feels best and youll definitly know what he likes best, but reverse cowgirl is a no-fail option too. When you feel like hes getting bored or YOU are, keep him inside you and turn around. Its a whole new feeling!

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  • by LeeLeeLee943 on June 17th, 2010

    LeeLeeLee943

    Hi! First of all, don´t feel stupid. It´s okey to feel insecure. We feel like we should be experts instantly, and like everything else, it gets better with practice. My first advise would be, that you talk about it with your partner, and you be surprised that perhaps he has also some insecurities. So talk about it, and don´t forget to keep the fun. Sex should be a place where you enjoy youeself. Don´t feel embarrased, and just explore and play, and have fun! there´s no right and wrong. Then, the first time, you can probably feel really awkweard (don´t know if its written right, english its not my first language), try it out, if you don´t feel confortable, just take his penis out, roll him over, and say, now i want you on top. You shouldn´t do ANYTHING you don´t feel confortable with. Now, being really literal, you just climb on top, try to get loose, insert his penis in your vagina, and then try a couple of moves; go back and forward (this is going to feel really good for you, cause your clitoris is being really, REALLY, estimulated, go up and down, move your hip circularly. The thing about being on top is that ist easier for a womn to get an orgasm, cause you are in control of the rythim.

    Anyway, the thing is that you have to explore yourself, find what thing you like, what you don´t. And I really incorauge you to find someone you feel you can talk to, and just talk about it. When you are sincere sex can get much MUCH better, cause there´s no pressure!
    You can help each other feel better about it.

    And have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Once you star exploring yourself, there´s no end!

    Good luck! and i hope this helps you

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