My boyfriend (20) lasts less than a minute in bed. Is this normal for his age? Are there ways to help him last longer? How can i possibly get pleasure as fast as he is?

How fast is his recovery time? Is he one and done? Maybe he can cum, then you can cuddle for a while and 30-40 minutes later, start round two. He may last much longer the second time.

Also, if you are having sex daily he may last longer than if weekly or every few days.

If he's reasonably sexually experienced a minute is a pretty short time. I don't know about how to handle premature ejaculation-maybe he should talk to a doctor.

From your standpoint, why not have him manually, mechanically or orally take care of you before he takes care of himself?

After all, we all know "ladies first."

I tolerated this shit with my husband for 15 years. I finally fucking left.
Hmmm, I guess that's not an answer....sorry!
My answer would be....find another man?

What he SHOULD do is masturbate before he gets into bed with you and then he should pleasure YOU and allow you to have at least one orgasm before the two of you actually have sex. He will last longer and you will already have been satisfied ahead of time.

Hi I used to have the same problem. The best way to learn how to last longer in bed is to train you ejaculatory relax and your pelvic muscles. These are the muscles that begin contracting and tensing during sex and eventually trigger ejaculation.

What many men don’t realize is that when these muscles are in a relaxed state it is physically impossible for you to ejaculate. Learning to relax these muscles during sex is not as simple as it sounds, but all men do have the ability to acquire this skill. The best way is to learn the correct methods and practice.

Some of the many techniques he can use to relax these muscles are Correct Breathing, visualization and meditative techniques, learning how to tune into all of your senses (not just your genital region) and training yourself to control you ejaculatory reflex.
Using these methods you should start to see result within a few days and be able to completely control these within a month if you work at it.

I learned all this from a guide written by an expert on premature ejaculation http://www.last-longer-in-bed.org/. it's well worth checking out and I'm sure it would help your boyfriend a lot.

Hope this helps.

You must have some damn good pussy. I would have to try it to tell if it was him or you.

My mom used to tell me, "Son, when all else fails, use your head." Since growing up, I have figured out the breadth of that sage advice. Teach him to use his head. After he's gotten you off, it's his turn. :)

I'm 19. i last less than a minute with my ex but i can go for a second time right away and last a long time..with another girl i last alot longer. thing is my ex is alot less attractive/fit so ionno whats up with that.

He should do exactly what I do for my Mistress, call in reenforcements to please her. Real men with superior cocks to please you.

It's not normal. He has been screwing around too much. You might want to check yourself for herpes or something... I'm dead serious.

I often thought that I had a problem with my X (she was my first) because I could never last very long inside her for round 1. It took 2 or more rounds for me to have any lasting saddle time. Over time we tried desensitizing creams, some tricks to relax me and things like pausing while she pinched at the base of the penis and then resume. Usually I would get her to the edge manually or orally so that we always would cum together.

Since we sepeated I've been with a number of women and I've found out different. Apparenlty her vaginal contractions were unique that I've not encountered since. Seriously, it felt like some sort of milking machine. Not that it wasn't great, but it's better now that I'm no longer a 'minute man'.

maybe he finds you so irrestible that he can't help it ... maybe he should work one out an hour or so beforehand and then that will give him the endurance you need

I'm not sure. My bf's 21 and I'm 19 and he lasts usually 5-10 minutes. He always fingers me to orgasm either way.