I am a 21 yr old female and I have asked GOD to take away my desire to be with a women for the past three years I have not done anything with one in over two years, Its such a battle in my head and heart should I just give in, will I go to hell?
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2crystal
ANSWERS: 17
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No you will not go to hell. Go with your desires, life is short enjoy it.
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God made you the way you are, and loves you the way you are, enjoy your life in whatever way feels right to you. Good Luck :-)
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Why would you question how God made you, and the life God chose for you? Embrace ALL the gifts you were given, including your inborn orientation. Good luck!
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1) What did GOD tell you as you asked HER? 2) If you stay inside a religion that tells you that you will go to hell if you follow your nature, you could have hell on earth. But you could also listen to many people who believe that whether God exists or not, it is ok to be something else as heterosexual. And that there are some conceptions of God and religion which also could accept this. I think that whether God exists or not, it is better to live our life just with finding the truth ourselves and not listen to everything that we are told about God. If you are looking for God, you have to find God inside yourself.
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If you feel like you are fighting with yourself more than your fighting with God then your assuming that how you feel is wrong. Good people are good people no matter what skin their in. Life is about living not living in fear. God knows you more than you know yourself. Your life was written in his book before you were born and he knew that at this point in life you would feel this way. Follow your heart and be smart at the same time. The more you fight with yourself the more you fight with God. Think about it.
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""God made you the way you are, and loves you the way you are, enjoy your life in whatever way feels right to you. Good Luck :-) "" I'm sorry but that is not true. The bible strictly talks about homosexuality. If you ask God to take away this desire He will... but you have to do your part to. Believe and know that He is listening. My husband had a bad problem with lust and we prayed about it and it stayed and stayed until he truely wanted it to go away and now that's a thing of the past. God never breaks his promises and he doesn't forsake you. Pray and do your part. He will :o). Good Luck!
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" The more you fight with yourself the more you fight with God. Think about it. " You have to fight your flesh 2Crystal. I'm not saying ur going to hell but in order to build your relationship with God (which is far more important than anyone!!!) then you WILL have to fight yourself.... but its all worth it!! :o)
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Enjoy being 21. If you go against your nature in the name of god, who is to say that you are not already in hell? Embrace life. Love yourself, and you will see that god still loves you, just as you were created!! Bright Blessings.
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Just go with the feelings and don't worry about the 'hell' thing.
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If such an entity exists (which there is no evidence for), it would not have made you in a way that you could not be. As long as you are not hurting others, just follow your instincts, your wishes, your desires and your dreams and don't let anyone else determine for you what is right and wrong about your personal life.
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Well don't seem you have such a problem. Bet you can't find a verse that says a woman can't sleep with a woman. It does concerning men but King David got away fine sleeping with his lover, Johnathon. Problem with the Bible is most believe what others told them. Read it yourself and it intertwines in contradictions. Remember the things regarding homosexuality were largely because a larger population was wanted, so heterosexual activity was promoted. Virginity was also promoted. But remind you that Mary was either 12 or 13. Should have been easy to remain a virgin to that age. Girls married much younger. So premartial sex won't work today unless the government lowers the marriage age to 12. Find a church that resolves those issues. Try Episcopal, Free Methodist, Lutheren or a similar church. . Just staY WITH LOVING THE PERSON BEFORE SEX AND YOU'LL BE FINE.
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Heck, join the Asgard Religion. That great religion of the Norse. We have lots of gods. Odin being the head. He has only one eye because he gave it up at the well of knowledge. And our gods are not immortal. Odin will be killed at Ragnarok, the last battle of the Universe. We have no hell, You go to Vahallla after death. We have no devil. Closest to that is Loki that stirs up mischief. It is beyond me how Judaism, Christianity and Islam even survived on the teachings they have. No scientific evidence on earth of the Bible events. With the Asgards all the events took part in the heavens. So, archaeological evidence would not be on earth. The Bible would have you believe the earth and the universe are only 6000 years old. Asgards believe the earth is billions of years old and science now proves that. Even the gods are not omnipotent. They rule because people want them to. They bring order and answer mysteries.
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why yes, hell awaits you my dear...along with all those who don't except christ, jews and the handicapped.
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IF a god made you and then punishes you for having the desires he gave you, then he's not worth loving. Do what you want with your life as long as it doesn't bring harm to anybody else. Go forth and enjoy life...you've already lost 2 years. :-)
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No, you will not go to hell!!! You people really need to stop worrying about this sort of stuff and get on with your life, and enjoy yourself!!! what if there is no god?? You've wasted all this time worrying for nothing... You're not a bad person because you want to have sex, it's a natural feeling, you're no different from the other billion people out in the world... stop worrying so much and live a little!
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If you mean sex, well God gave you the craving for sex just like he gave you the craving for food (hunger) so dont be afraid go do it, but do it as God asked you to.
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Do not give in ! God made you in his own likeness and homosexuality is an abomination to Him ! He did not make you a homosexual, these are your own desires away from God. He is so proud of you that you would try this hard. To give in now is to give that up. He loves you and He wants you to keep fighting ! Leviticus 20:13 "If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them." As it is true that we as mere people have no right to judge and treat homosexuals as beneath us (my uncle is gay, I get it), it is important to remember that God is a God of justice, and anyone who goes against Him will indeed pay for his sins, as God as clearly told us throughout the bible. "..they shall surely be put to death;" This actually assures them of where they are actually headed. Clear as day. Proverbs 6:16, “There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him…” Thats some deep sin right there.
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