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by tvp0905 on December 1st, 2007

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My girlfriend and I are considering a threesome with another woman (we've already had a volunteer). Although she has had lesbian encounters in the past, neither of us has ever been involved in a threesome. Any advice? Thanks

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  • by bthcas on January 1st, 2010

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    DONT DO IT THREESOMES KILL RELATIONSHIPS

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  • by Wickels on January 13th, 2008

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    Your best bet is to communicate a LOT. Both with your girlfriend, and as a couple with your third person. Everyone need to be on the same page as to what is expected, and what is not allowed. Everyone has their limits, and they need to be acknowledged and respected.

    Then, have a good time! There is always the possibility that this will ruin your relationship, but if you look at my other answers in the Threesome catagory, you will see that I am a big time fan of threesomes, and have had many without adverse effects.

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  • by The Watcher on December 2nd, 2007

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    If you aren't sure you want to and she isn't sure then I say don't do it. It sounds like your uncomfortanble about it and that can be trouble. How about if you suggest she get together with the other girl and let you watch? If they are both into it then you can experience them and not be directly involved and then you can decide if you want to join and if she wants to do it again.

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  • by keithold is a prodigal bagger on December 1st, 2007

    keithold is a prodigal bagger

    G'day Tvp005,

    Thank you for your question.

    My advice is to make sure that you are both totally sure that you want to do this as it could cause difficulties if either partner is unsure.

    You would also want to ensure that the third person doesn't try to start a relationship with either yourself or your girlfriend.

    Other than that, make sure that everyone is protected.

    Regards

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  • by Shelly on December 2nd, 2007

    Shelly

    You better watch it, if she likes the female better than you she just may leave you for her. And it would be your fault for opening that door for her.

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  • by Mighty_Mouse on September 28th, 2010

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    enjoy it, but set some ground rules first. The other consequence is that unless your both for sure, mentally able, and willing to do it, there will be some feelings in the back of your heads that the other partner is out fucking around when they are not around. the relationships that fail are because one or both hadn't come to terms before hand and were doing it to either please the other partner or try to spice up a failed relationship already. ignore them. Unless they actually did it, dont take advice from someone who hasn't tried.

    we did it a few times, we dont anymore but it was fun for a while. If you get the FMF, you need to reciprocate and allow a MFM. Two guys can enjoy her and not have to touch each other.

    we tried FMF, two things made it not so great. 1. even with the happy little blue pill, there was no way I had enough stamina to properly satisfy two ladies. That is an ego killer and a let down to the two.
    2. The wife also dont like sharing (said she was cool with it, but wasn't) in that she is afraid I will prefer the other more. I was able to go out and get some but not with her there and i couldn't openly talk about it either. it was 'go get it if you want, just don't tell me.'

    The first one (MFM) was kind of awkward and boring. The wife was in doggy position and getting filled from behind while she gave oral on the other side and after he came, she spun around and it happened again. we did this where both of us filled her up twice. super exciting and boring all at the same time. (afraid of M-M contact)

    The other couple of times got more interesting as we both got kind of more bold and daring. Tried different positions.

    I give some details to show that if you try it, REALLY enjoy it. it will not be as much fun as it can be the first time, though the anticipation is the most exciting the first time you do it.

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