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  • Depends on how old you are. If you are under 18, you should hang out at her place and watch t.v. until you can convince her to go to the mall (or movies, or put-put golf, just something fun) and just keep her mind occupied. if you are over 18 but under 35 take her to a club or bar or out drinking and hook her up with a good on night fling. if you are over 35 do the same as if you were under 18.
  • Just keep telling her it's for the best and it'll take time. Try to keep her away from him if possible, because chances are she'll try to go back, or at least try to keep contact. And that's never a good idea. Keep her busy and make sure she keeps herself busy. My friend went through this, but there is only so much we can do. You have to let her fight her own battles and learn for herself. Probably not now, but eventually she'll come back and say you were right, because she will find someone that is so much better.
  • Just be a friend and don't try to market her like a recently rejuvenated piece of meat. Invite her to do friend things that will keep her from focusing on what she considers a tragic loss, regardless of the truth of the matter. Don't push her on your favorite selections so you can live vicariously through her bedroom antics. Be discrete and don't announce to the world that your loser friend needs some quick action real bad. Respect her dignity and her need for self-respect. But if she needs a quiet time, then give her that.
  • I would keep asking her if she needs anything. Don't be too pushy or bring the situation up if you can avoid it. If you are trying to go for her, just be there for her in a way thats not too upfront. Kinda back off a little bit and pull a little reverse psychology on her. In way just have a "oh that sucks, I'm sorry he is a !@#%." attitude. But in a way be there for her. Maybe send her a few little text messages that just say what's up, can I do anything for you and how are you doing? Don't go for that whole, oh you poor thing. Keep it casual and let her know you are there as a friend before you move on.
  • I would be there for her! have fun with her make her laugh!! But u have to give her time because it is gonna take a while!!
  • the same thing happened to my best friend. i was so excited but she was crushed. I went over her house the second that happened wit ice cream, chocolate, munchies, and a couple of really funny movies. I slpet over and the next day we went out and within that week she was back to normal.

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