A girl told me she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. So why would she keep calling me often and seem to get jealous when I become interested in other girls?
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She wants you to want her. She needs you to need her. Unfortunately this may just be her selfish need to have you adore her rather than any feelings she actually has for you. Call her on her behavior. As in "Jessica, what does it matter to you who I see, you already told me you weren't interested in me as a boyfriend?" Put the pressure on her, where it belongs.
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maybe she just likes the attention off you, and although she doesnt want you as a partner right now she likes the thought of having someone waiting for her, shes probably jealous when you are interested in other girls because she is worried about losing her safety net!
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I think you may of fallen into the friendzone. It's an area where girls keep guys they use for emotional support. If you had a shot at getting with her, it would of happened by now. You were most likely given the "I don't want a boyfriend right now" line because she knows if she outright tells you that she isn't into you that you will run off. She will feel threatened when you become interested in other girls as it will result in her losing part of her emotional safety net. You'll get to deal with all the bitching and whining and emotional comforting without getting anything in return. It's basically a relationship where you will always be sexually frustrated. Check out ladder theory. People only think it's a joke because it's so true.
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Yeah, I know this one guy who told me he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, but then he asks his friend if this other girl is still available. He says he's just too busy for a gf and other things. I don't know what this girl's deal is, but if she doesn't want a bf right now then respect that. If she gets jealous maybe she does like you. I've never been in a relationship so I don't know much...
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Maybe she has something going on in her life you don't know about. maybe she has commitment issues or just doesnt want that kind of a relationship. she probably still likes you though.
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Maybe she wants a rich handsome slave and thinks you might turn into one. No? That doesnt work? Sounds like she likes you.
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well today must be your lucky day cuz i did the same thing she did to you to somebody and the reason why she is probably doing this is she has probably been in a lot of bad relationships and not ready to get in another one yet but give her time she will come it took me 3months after i seen the guy i liked finally move on from trying to go with me and move on to another girl i hurried up and got my self together so play like you want to go with somebody and trust me she'll hurry up and make her mind up then cuz deep down she really loves you.
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My comical take on the subject: Listen. Girls want everything. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Why? Because every girl has a natural, built in gene called "entitlement" which gives them full range to demand anything whenever, and for whatever logical or illogical reason. Reason is expected to be understood through inference not direct communication. See? If a girl has even .001% interest in a guy she has the right to assume full responsibility over whether he even so much as looks at another girl. When she says she doesn't want you and calls, that means she owns you and expects you to obey her. Again there is no logical reasoning behind this and in the mind of a girl, none is needed. There is more of this bogus mental representation of female fashion dating which could take up several pages but I leave off here. ;-)
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