ANSWERS: 8
  • depends on what grounds you broke up and also you have to think of how settled she is?? Its a difficult one, without knowing more info i cant say
  • You can if you want to i guess. But it sure looks like she has moved on... or has gone to great lengths to make you jealous and get you back
  • she has someone new. telling her you love her will be selfish and could cause problems between you. do you think you would feel the same about her if she didn't have a new man? maybe you really do still love her...but maybe you are just in love with the "idea" of her. either way...it's really best to not tell her.
  • Your ex has clearly moved on. Unless she breaks up with this man, it might be better if you don't say anything. Just share the custody and be a good daddy for now. Who knows, maybe you will find someone new soon yourself.
  • Well i think first of all you have to find out if she is happy with her new partner..if she is then i wouldnt suggest you tell her. Just stay friends for your child (although it wont be easy for you) but for all you know she might not be as happy as you think.. check it out first before you rush in and make a BIG mistake.. and good luck.
  • Does she still have feelings? It looks as if she has moved on and yes it would be kinda selfish to tell her and my cause even more problems between the two of you, but in the end it is your situation and you can only follow your heart. Really take the time to think about it before you do anything. Everyone above has given great advise!
  • well, I'm n a very similar situation. I was with my ex, then moved awat to go to Law School and we broke up. I had a really hard time with it, and decided to move back to our small town a couple months ago. She has just moved in with her boyfriend that she started dating right after we split....Anyways, we talk or go for a walk every week or two an I sense she is not too happy presently although I am unsure if this has to do with her partner or not. We have a pretty messy history together so I am not sure it would work out even if we did get back together, but yesterday we were out walking and having a pretty deep talk and I simply came out and told her I still loved her and wanted to be with her. I also told her however that I wasn't asking or expecting her to leave her current partner for me, but just that that was how I really felt I wanted to be honest and upfront about it. It may scare her away, and if it does it will probably be a good thing for me as I need to move on....or just maybe she will reconsider us if she has similar feelings. A new strategy for me is be totaly honest and upfront about your own feelings
  • Sure, you can still love her. You're just not dating her or sleeping with her.

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