ANSWERS: 7
  • Just take it easy buddy..theres no rush..no need to get into anything right away. And the person your seeing should understand.
  • I would casually see how it goes. Knowing someone for years is a good sign..the best long-term relationships in my experience begin with friendship. Good luck, staffie! :)
  • You can do both. No need to get heavily serious, real quick, is there? Just take your time and see how things unfold. Good luck!
  • Staffie.. I am very happy for you! You deserve happiness since that scoundrel was the one who was unfaithful to you. Personally, I don't think you should break up at all.. you have been on friendly terms for years so you know that this person is of stable character. Just take things nice and slow because you do need some time to fully get that man of 10 years out of your system. It's much like getting off caffeine, you may have withdrawals but after a while, you don't miss the stuff. Thanks for sharing the good news, I have been thinking about you.
  • You need to make sure that you are over the last relationship before you begin another one. After a long term relationship ends, it's always a good idea to take a proper time out. Make sure you give yourself enough time to heal, otherwise you may be paying for it later. Like walking on a broken leg, your heart needs time to heal as well. Although filling the void with a new person is tempting, it generally leads to disater. It alleviates the pain of now, but remains at the back of your mind festering. My ex did this to me... never let go of his ex and after 9 months together realized that he's still in love with her... God does it hurt. There's no need to rush. If your heart feels it's right. Go for it. If there's ANY doubt that you're not ready... take that time out. Wish you the best of luck :)
  • i'm on the edge of ending my 10years relationship as well. Boi, it's hard because I still love him, but I don't trust him with money( serious addict gambler) and cheating on me with other girls.
  • yes friend i would wait and take it easy becuase you dont know what stabble mind you ex is in. but at the same time i would not wait for my ex move on.

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