Im smart pretty i have a great personality im nice and have a lot of friends people love being around me yet i cant get a boyfriends is there something wrong with me

No there is nothing wrong with you.

Do you really think that much of yourself? Or are you trying to convince yourself all this is true? I mean come onnnnnnnnn. Sounds like a write up for Miss America and you can't get a date? First of all start being honest with yourself, BE YOURSELF, not a princess. Just relax and have fun!!!!!!!

No nothings wrong with you. A lot of people I know are really nice with great personalities too. Most of them also have a lot of friends. And almost all of them don't have boyfriends. It's not weird or anything. It's quite normal. If you really feel that there's a problem though, maybe it's the way that you try to get a boyfriend.

Well, there's something wrong with everybody. ;)

Do you have dates, that don't turn into boyfriends? Or no dates? Where does the process break down?

Get hold of a video camera, or at least a tape recorder, and record yourself meeting guys and talking to people. There may be some quirk about the way you come across.

dont worry love. i have the same problem. guys are forever getting mesmerized by my looks so it ends up always being about a physical attraction rather than a spirital or emotional one.

first of all its all about how you can change your view of the situation. you have to begin to see everything as a positive rather than a negative. for example... when you meet a guy in the back of your mind you probably tell yourself from the very beginning "he is just into my looks". when you do this you allow your fear (which is that he is just into your physical nature) to engulf you before any kind of relationship has even begun. whereas if you had begun on a positive note and by thinking "this guy is totally going to love my deep emotional offering and personality"... you not only disregard your own fear. you also begin to believe it and therefore subconciously transfer this way of thinking to the guy.

the change must begin with you. your initial question is really negative and this portrays your actual thinking. but then again everyone reading this comment and on this website also in some way or form has a similar emotional problem. that is why we have all been drawn to your question on the net. so do not think that you are alone. but allow yourself to understand the rules of positivity and gravitational pull. it applies to anything and everything... the laws of attraction! mwah

Well, I'm reading your other posts, and seeing a pattern of severe emotional instability and depression. You need to talk to a professional about why you hurt yourself. It could be because you're subconsciously avoiding any more situations where you could get rejected, because that seems to be your fuel for your self-loathing.

Best of luck, and leave the pointy things to cutting food.

I have the same problem, and I realized that I became this way because I dont have a good relationship with my father. So the attention I longed for I looked for in guys, and boyfriend figures. Sometimes over doing it, I call it over watering the garden. You have to give them just enough attention and not too much attention. Dont come off desperate even if you are. And realize that you really dont need a boyfriend right now, if you are smart and nice and talented and have some close guy friends, to be honest the only thing you are lacking is the sexual interaction. Try to focus more on yourself, and less on guys and searching for them. When you do this they will realize that you dont care as much and psychologically they will start to pay more attention to you, and begin the chase, which is necessary. Dont go after the guy, the second you do and he realizes that he can have you, he wont want you. Dont call him. Let him call you. Easier said than done I know, I can't even refrain from it. But really just keep your head up and try not to rely your happiness on the acceptance of a guy that honestly at this stage in life isnt looking for what we as young ladies are looking for, which would be something more serious. Try giving guys that are not as attractive and dont have everything in the world a chance, because they will appreciate your attention alot more than a guy that regularly goes through girls based on his appearance and macho man attitude, It takes time, and understanding. Just distract yourself from constantly thinking about it. You will be fine, I promise!

I'm flattered.

No there is nothing wrong with you. At all. You already know you are good looking and nice and that shows confidence. Second guessing yourself now is a bad choice to make. You are also probably surrounded by losers. If you see one that stands out from the bunch just be around that person more. In time he will work up the nerve to ask your hot ass out.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you, your just not trying that hard to get a guy, trust me its not that hard to reel in a guy, he might not be the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with but its pretty easy to get a guy, its alot harder for guys to get a girl.
If you have as nice as personality as you say and have lots of friends, you can get a guy, one of the more wealthy people i know here isn't married to a super awesome model looking girl, shes actually over weight some, and doesn't look all that great in my eyes, but he loves her to death, there is someone for everyone.

NO! There's absolutely nothing wrong with you! Good, solid relationships start with the friend stage first, so it's good that you have friends. Guys can sometimes find girls like you "untouchable" like you're out of their league cuz you have so many friends. Be patient, you're a good catch, some guy'll realize that and go for you, just don't be easy. Know what you want and stick with it, the guy'll come and you'll be glad you didn't change yourself for some other guy.

Nothing wrong but its possible u just don't have sexual appeal. You would have to ask a guy friend. Its also possible you keep sending out that, I want to only be your friend signal, or that you make guys want to protect you like a little sister.
Only one way to tell. Ask your pals.

Here's the truth you may be all those but that doesn't mean that your perfect. When you say all those things about yourself it makes you seem like you have a lot of pride. Its not a good thing, I'm not trying to be mean in saying this but maybe you just need to wait and the Lord will send you someone... Pray about it because that always works for me but maybe its not you and then again maybe it is but good things come to those that wait

I think boys are just too shy to approach you, so it's not your problem. Don't try too hard. If you're really young (16 and younger), that could be the reason too.

Nothing wrong with you, but your focus seems to be on yourself. Focus on the guy and get him to talk. Ask questions, be genuinely interested in him. Ask questions that are a bit deeper, not surface chit-chat. This demonstates that you have a deeper side yourself, regardless of age. Be transparent with him. You will find that there are a whole lot of guys you don't want, but a good one will come along if you go about it this way.

I'm assuming you're a girl because of the language you're using. I don't know if there is anything wrong with you as I do not know you personally. I can tell you that if you still have this attitude, PLEASE don't settle for just anyone. Seriously. Someone MIGHT just come along. If you try to settle with anyone and put so much effort into it, that person will probably write you off, and right after someone will show interest in you and you'll feel bad about what you did before because of this new person that actually likes you for who you are. I'm not saying this is guaranteed to happen, but it might. Just continue to be yourself and be patient! I know that you probably feel left out right now because it seems as though everyone around you is taken and everyone probably looks happy that they have someone to love that loves them back. That's normal. If you want a good boyfriend, you're going to have to wait patiently instead of settling for just anyone because you want to be in a relationship like everyone else.

Focus on being yourself and not what you think the guys want in a woman. People react to genuine people and they can read when people are “acting”. You should also view the world through others eyes and not just your own. People are not attacked and do not like being around self center individuals. You may or may not be one of these, but it is something to think about.

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It's normal. Just be happy with you and love will find a way.

No I can't find one either.

you're not pretty enough

Of course there's something wrong with you. There's something wrong with everyone. We're human, and that's part of the human condition. But don't focus on "what is wrong". Instead continue to consider, focus on and accentuate your positive qualities. Not blindly, though. Don't think that being "smart, pretty and likable" is all you need to attract and keep a guy. And one of the things that turns most guys off a particular girl (and girls off of a guy, too) is "desperation" and "wanting" a relationship too much or too soon.

So continue to be your smart, pretty and likable self, put yourself in places where other people are (of both sexes; it's not like you want to plant yourself in a boys' locker room, now) and just enjoy your life. THAT, in combination with the rest of your good attributes, will interest anyone who is also "normal".