Your choice really, I would suggest that you trust him before you let him go anywhere near you, and that if you go anywhere near sex you practice safe sex (IE use a condom).

If you have to ask, I'd say it shows enough doubt that you probably shouldn't. (but good on you for having the sense to hesitate!)

Keep your legs closed and his hand out of your nickers. Then again you are going to do what you want anyway. In any case, do what JohnThePyro said.

You asked so here's my answer: That depends, how do you feel about getting pregnant or contracting an STD? At 14 you're much better off closing your legs and just being a kid for a few more years.

I think you should wait until your old enough to answer that question yourself, your obviously not old enough to ask it now.......

I think that doing that would be a very big mistake! If you felt sure and knew that it was what you wanted to do then you wouldnt be asking us online, you would have already done the deed. If your not sure enough to do it then dont do it, never do things that your not 100% about because truth is you will probably come to regret it. And trust me boys come and go, in 2 years time this guy may not be even in your life do you want him to take your innocence away from you and then forget about you. Your the one that has to live with yourself for the rest of your life. Do the right thing for you, not for everyone else..

If you have to ask thousands of people here on AB then of course not . In a month your question will be , asking us if you pregnant So my answer is NO

Thats a big NO NO. I dont even know why you would even think about doing it. At 14 years old, you should be concentrating on school. The risks of touching involves having sex at an early age is very high. Apart from HIV/AIDS, there is the possibility of pregnancy. Would you get an abortion if you had a child? As a middle school student, are you financially equipped to support the baby? You will be overwhelmed with so much responsiblities as a young teenager. You have to weigh the consequences for your actions. Think before you act. Always think

haha, honestly it's your choice. i say there's nothing wrong with having a little fun. but let me emphasize the word LITTLE. it's ok to a certain point. but the second you feel uncomfortable, tell him to stop. if he loves you, he will. i lost my virginity to this guy because i didn't know how to tell him to stop. and believe me. it's not worth it.

well if u want to den do it its depends how u both feel x

I lost my virginity at 14 and did sexual things at 13. I can't stress enough how much I regret it now. I really thing you should wait, there's no rush! You have your whole life ahead of you and when you're a little bit older sex will be a part of your relationship and not just a quick awkward fumble with a lad. When you're in relationships with men in the future, the question will always come up 'So when did you lose your virginity' and seriously every boyfriend I've told has been shocked and quite disturbed that I was so young when I lost it! Do not do it! Learn from my mistakes

GROW UP!

If you want to go for it just be carefull

I don't think it is a good idea. You may have sexual feelings for him, and that is normal, but as soon as you experience a little bit of sexual pleasure, it is very hard to stop yourself from going further. If you start with a little of this and a little of that, pretty soon you'll be wanting to go further until you're trying to resist having sex. At your age, there is just sooooo many reasons not to have sex yet. As a lot of people have already mentioned, at your age he probably won't be the guy you marry. Once you sleep with one guy, it gets harder to say no to the next one. If your relationship only lasts a few months, then you get another boyfriend, sleep with him and it lasts only a few months, think about how many partners that will add up to by the time you are ready to get married. Do you really want to have to look your future husband in the eyes and tell him that you've already been with 10, 20, or even more guys? Most men will lose a lot of respect for you if you've been 'used' so much. There's also the risks of pregnancy and STDs if you start down this road. Not to mention rumors flying around your school and the risk of getting a bad reputation that can follow you through graduation. I know it's hard to resist when it seems like just a little fun between two people that care about each other. Just remember to care about yourself enough to not get in over your head and risk messing up your future.

if you want to and u think it's right and the right time and you've been with him for more than a couple of weeks go for it if you want to

IM 14.. Keep innocence until your at least 18 please.. This world is going crazy when it comes to 13 14 yr olds having sex Just stay Abstinence for awhile. if he really likes your or even loves you he will respect you and your choice -Jasmine

Don't -- you'll regret it. Of course he wants to get his hands in there to finger. And of course getting rubbed up and down between your labia and having your clitoris stimulated is pleasant for you. But it won't stop with that. Likewise with your nipples. These things really belong in marriage and in that context are an endless source of pleasure and delight. Outside of marriage that sort of stimulation leads to problems. Save it.

in my opinion, no, because i did it and am now in the middle of a pregnancy scare. i say leave it off for a few years x

i think you should wait because you are still young and four play leads to much more and every think you do with your b/f should be special i still think your still to young and waiting till your 16 would be the right time just enjoy life and if you end up having sex you should always tell him to wear a comdom

im 14 almost 15 i gave it up at 14 i in no way regret it i actually liked it so if u feel ur ready its ur decision wat i dont get is why ppl care so much about our virginity it belongs to us why cant we use it the way we wont but i do say think long and hard first and dont be silly rap his willy =D so just think first thats all im saying but im not saying NO U CANT ITS WRONG cus really its not well not to u cus its more of wat u want rather then wat other ppl want for u jus tdo wat u feel is right!!!

I dont know why anyone even bothers to answer these types of questions....

Definitely NO. Sex requires life experience. Trust me. At such a young age it will really affect the rest of your life, in a negative way.

your 14 . YOUR WAY TO YOUNG

Sure why not? Just make sure you are not wearing them at the time.

If You Want Him To Then Do It,,,Dont listen To Every1 Else,,Your only A Teenager Once In Your Life So do It Whilst You Hasve The Chance...Be Careful,Tell Him You Want Him To and Wash His Hands Before...I Know Plenty Of People Tha Hsve Done Stuff Like This At 14...Im 15 And Was Doing That Kind Of Thing A Year Ago....:L The people Who Tell YouNot To Are Jelouse They Csnt Get Action themselfs

it is really up to you but if i was you just think about the consquences of it