by PuppyTooFat on November 20th, 2007

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Have you ever had a stalker?

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  • by Sweet T on July 22nd, 2008

    Sweet T

    Yes, I have.

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  • by Sweet T on February 29th, 2008

    Sweet T

    Yes, my ex wouldnt quit following me around, for about a year after the divorce, he would come to my friends house if I was there.

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  • by peterpam on November 20th, 2007

    peterpam

    Yes and it is not pleasant!

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  • by fanbase on November 4th, 2008

    fanbase

    yes, once last year by an ex-girlfriend that I broke up with because she was psycho. She scared the hell out of me. She kept saying things like: "you are mine and you can't date anyone else!!!". She threatened to hurt me if she were to see me with another girl. Plus, she kept calling me at all times of the day and night. Thankfully she moved outside the country but she would still call me up long distance and I just screen my phone calls.

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  • by AmorousLilith on September 3rd, 2008

    AmorousLilith

    I swear this is like the 7th time.

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  • by redcatt63 is around here somewhere...... on February 29th, 2008

    redcatt63 is around here somewhere......

    Well, I guess I would consider a troll sending threatening messages and emails to be stalking. Back when I was on Y/A, I had to shut off my "email" link because of the nasty and vicious emails I would get. Then, they apparently figured out or got my email from someone and pretended to be from Yahoo and sent fake violation notices as well. I had to set up blocks and filters to put a stop to it. They did this to a lot of other users, too...and they also troll and clone on AB. Once, they cloned me and came on and announced that my partner had died...and a lot of people fell for it at first, until they noticed that "I" was level one and had a new account.

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  • by kitten is smiling... on February 29th, 2008

    kitten is smiling...

    Twice.Both times I took a restraining order out on both.One was arrested for breaking the restraining order and the other just kind of faded into the woodwork.My suggestion would be to go to the authorities and do the same.Be very careful out alone and DO NOT give this person any attention of any kind,that will only further incite this person to stalk you .I hope this helps and that this situation is resolved in a timely and positive way! It is a very uncomfortable feeling to say the least.Hope all is well Rick!Also when possible Change your routine!

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  • by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on February 29th, 2008

    killdrphil - reasonable for a madman

    Stalk the stalker...

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  • by AntigoneRising on February 29th, 2008

    AntigoneRising

    Yes. The best thing you can do is get the authorities involved ASAP. Do not communicate directly with the individual, if you can help it. This is the GOAL - direct communication with you and attention from you. Even if you are yelling, that is considered a positive by the person.

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  • by Jane on February 29th, 2008

    Jane

    no, not that i know of. My oldest sister was once. The guy sent her a picture of a gun. When she went to the police he was waiting for her outside the police station and the more upset she got the more calm he became. What a creep

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  • by N I C K on November 10th, 2009

    N I C K

    No, but I've been one. A couple times.

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  • by Arisztid on February 2nd, 2008

    Arisztid

    Yes... for three years and it is still ongoing.

    I would not recommend it.

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  • by Stillme FBB on November 20th, 2007

    Stillme FBB

    Yes, It scared me. I don't scare easy. He knew where I was all the time. Called me and told me. I had a restraining order put on him, not worth the paper it's written on. It all started when I baby sat for his twins. His wife was in the hospital. It went on for about a year. And then one day it stopped!!!!!!

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  • by Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour. on November 20th, 2007

    Spunts.answered 67 questions in 1 hour.

    FOR SIX MONTHS.

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  • by the guy behind the bushes on October 22nd, 2009

    the guy behind the bushes

    no but if i get one i hope she is hot

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  • by AIR_INDIA_says_Wass_Up on September 19th, 2009

    AIR_INDIA_says_Wass_Up

    nope , never , who in the whole world will like to stalk indians lol lol

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  • by Fiddle Playing Creole Bastard on September 9th, 2009

    Fiddle Playing Creole Bastard

    I've had 3.

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  • by Dr. Underground on January 19th, 2009

    Dr. Underground

    "People have always believed in me, either for positive or negative reasons!! Mainly for their own success or benefit and one of theose types of people are a certain Hispanic Religious Cult I was involved in many years ago, they won't let me go!! They're always trying to Punk me down It's a certain chain/network of people that keep tabs on me!! It just shows that a large portion in So. Cal is Fucked in the Head!!

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  • by ChandaDiane - est. 1975 on January 14th, 2009

    ChandaDiane - est. 1975

    ...sigh... no.
    No one has ever cared about me enough to stalk me.

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  • by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on September 3rd, 2008

    Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused

    I've been stalkted several times.

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  • by DA BEN DAN yanggui zi on September 1st, 2008

    DA BEN DAN yanggui zi

    I have been stalked...

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  • by Mike...is tired from college on September 1st, 2008

    Mike...is tired from college

    I love stalking people :D

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  • by Snowman on July 22nd, 2008

    Snowman

    Why??? Wait, are you following me?!!!!

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  • Unfortunately.

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  • by Anonymous on July 22nd, 2008

    Anonymous

    Yep .. online and off. Not fun at all !!!

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  • by TERRYTUKER on July 22nd, 2008

    TERRYTUKER

    yeah by the Claremont police department

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  • by El Soupy spanish for the soupy on July 22nd, 2008

    El Soupy spanish for the soupy

    yes in real life even by an exgirlfriend.. who destroyed my car, then when I sold it.. she bought the car of the person I sold it too... weird.. and she was always "coincidentally" at everyplace I ended up at..

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  • by Cowtipper on July 22nd, 2008

    Cowtipper

    No, not that I know of.

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  • by Little big mouth on February 29th, 2008

    Little big mouth

    No. The worst thing that happened to me was the guy I dated 10 years ago swore to kill me the next time he saw me but he's in jail now for other stuff

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  • by Angel of Music on February 2nd, 2008

    Angel of Music

    Yes and it was horrible. The first one followed me around and would not leave me alone, the other one sms'ed me these vulgar inappropriate sex messages. I still don't know to this day who it was. I was on the point of getting the police involved. And to think this all happened while I was in Primary School!

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  • by ChillWinterheart on November 21st, 2007

    ChillWinterheart

    No, but I think I've been somebody's stalker for a few months of my life... or at least that's how I think I was perceived.

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  • by haggis on November 20th, 2007

    haggis

    yes i was dating him then he wouldn't take no for an answer. turned out to be a real creep!

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  • by Lambchop Good Wool Ambassador on November 20th, 2007

    Lambchop  Good Wool Ambassador

    In real life no. Here on the Internet or more specific Answerbag, yes.

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  • by mizuiislife on November 20th, 2007

    mizuiislife

    Yes, I had a guy that was obsessed with me a couple of years ago- he would phone me constantly and kept showing up at my appartment complex. I think he had a mental illness. I was relieved when I found out he moved to another town!

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  • by Anonymous on November 20th, 2007

    Anonymous

    Yes. She still mails packages to me, and calls my friends to ask about me. Quite disturbing.

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  • by ard munch on November 3rd, 2009

    ard munch

    kind of?
    we were only in middle school, so...

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  • by _bRiTtAnY_ on November 4th, 2009

    _bRiTtAnY_

    yes i have......
    he goes everywhere i go.......
    its really scary........
    help me what do i do..........???????????

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  • by Symbeline on October 29th, 2009

    Symbeline

    Probably.

    That's just how cool I am.

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  • by candy-cakes on October 29th, 2009

    candy-cakes

    Yes.
    I have had a few stalkers actually - but the two were just ex bf's who were just hanging on and it wasnt that serious, just pathetic and sad.
    The one was a true stalker though and it was very scary.

    I will be honest and admit that at first it was kind of flattering and ego boosting, I mean this guy met me ONE TIME and was writing me amazing poems and drawing/painting unbelievable portraits of me and sending me flowers etc. But then it got creepy, he found out my address and phone number (home & cell) some how, hacked my email and msn, got 3 different cell phone numbers to call n txt me from and used one to pretend he was a chick hating on me (wtf. right?!)and even got photos of me off my myspace etc and photo shopped himself in them so it looked like we were posing together... omg it was so creepy! this went on for about two years, it was more serious in the second year. I told him I was going to the police and he said he would kill himself (geezus!) and that he would wait for me forever -even in death because he knew we were soul mates. I tried to find out who his friends were so they could talk to him, his best friend didnt believe me - he thought (after seeing his photo-shopped pix of us!) that I was his gf. He said that this guy is the captain of a state basketball team and is super popular and a total cool cat, that he never had to chase or "stalk" a girl in his life and he was not a poem writing portrait painting pansy! can you believe that?
    So clearly I was dealing with a psychotic stalker with a double life and split-personality. in the end my bf at the time was the one that got him to stop, he still wont tell me how he managed it but he promised he didnt kill him (lol)!
    Having a true stalker is really the scariest thing, it robs you of your liberty and makes you paranoid - you stop feeling safe and you feel like you are always being watched. It quickly stops being flattering and turns ugly once they realise you cant be "won".
    My advice to anyone being stalked is to TELL EVERYONE , DONT KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

    (o . O)

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  • by cold_cut on November 10th, 2009

    cold_cut

    yes i did, i was in high school then, i went inside the house n i told my elder brother about it, he bet the crap out of that guy!!

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  • by bigpenisman on November 10th, 2009

    bigpenisman

    yupp its just cause they can see my boner

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  • by malavase on November 4th, 2009

    malavase

    thank goodness, no! someone should recommend a good romance novel for these type of people ...

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  • by betony24.rei-chan on October 22nd, 2009

    betony24.rei-chan

    yes but it was a joke since my friend and i were going in the same direction to class but her's was upstairs. =P

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  • by Special K on January 14th, 2009

    Special K

    Yes the cops were stalkin me when I went by this hot chicks house for the 50th time.

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  • by Mountain Momma on January 14th, 2009

    Mountain Momma

    I have had a few experiences with weirdos. Haha.

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  • by philosopher-saint on January 14th, 2009

    philosopher-saint

    "Flowered" once or twice, but never stalked!
    ;-)

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  • by Google a Foo Fighting COAT on January 14th, 2009

    Google a Foo Fighting COAT

    No, not yet.

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  • by TINKERBELLE on January 16th, 2009

    TINKERBELLE

    yes, theres this mental case from another website,she keeps aking me to be her friend on yahoos beta 360,i tell her yes then after qa week she drops ut of sight shes done this three times already using diffrent aliases. ten her gender changes i cant be bothered with this garbage,so i contacted the cyber police and thyre gonna fix her or him.

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  • by Rollie on January 17th, 2009

    Rollie

    I don't know for sure. I have been threatened with physical bodily harm on two occasions by two different people (at least mentioned a hi-power rifle). I am not sure if they actually stalked me or not.
    The police were aware of it and in one case actually reported that to me that I had been threatened.

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  • by Leeses Pieces is COATed in chocolate on January 19th, 2009

    Leeses Pieces is COATed in chocolate

    unfortunately.

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