Is it OK for my 12-year-old nephew and his 13-year-old sister to sleep naked together? They share a bedroom, and my nephew recently told me that his parents don't know....and they sleep naked together. Do any other siblings get naked together @ ths age?
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this is absoultely not ok. Their parents need to know about this so that they can put a stop to it
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That seems pretty strange in my opinion. Especially since the parents "don't know."
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No, it's not ok for them to be sleeping together with no clothes on. At that age, they should not be sharing a bedroom together let alone sleeping in the same bed. Also, the fact that their parents don't know should send up a "red flag".
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Serious, your not a parent are you?
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This is so not okay. THey are teens or near enough. It's indecent. And saying the parents don't know proves that they know something is wrong with it.
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No, this is not okay!
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This is your first question so I don't know for sure if this is a real situation or not but no it is not ok.
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mmm, this is sooooo not ok. Why are they even sleeping in the same room?? They are too old for that. You need to tell the parents ASAP or that could turn into some foul mess.
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they aare almost teen s and teens are not exactly trustworthy in a bed room with anyone! you really need to tell the parents and/or find out if there is anything going on! this is officially ur bussiness so you need to act befor it is to late.
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No it's not ok. Especially at their ages. For 1..why do they have to sleep together? 2..why do they need to sleep naked? and 3.. they are supposed to have their own room and bed...if social services found out their parents could get in some serious trouble
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NO
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negative ghost rider.
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do they know the seriousness of this situation? the parents need to know!!! that is really disgusting, they are old enough to know that is plain wrong!
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Depends. Do you get the feeling there's something sexual going on, or likely to be? If so then no, it's definitely not OK. If there's nothing sexual, then why not? I certainly disagree with those who've said that a brother and sister of this age should never be sharing a room. That's just daft. But I would definitely ask your nephew why he hasn't talked to his parents about this. And yes, I'm a parent, although my daughter is currently only 7 and doesn't have a brother ... much to her annoyance :-)
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in my opinion is it wrong, they might have had sexual intercourse or other things, tell there parents ASAP before something goes terrably wrong
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uh, no its not ok...i'd suggest they learn boundaries between genders and what's appropriate and what isnt. this is one of those things that falls under "isn't" tell their parents
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Sharing a room at that age is not a problem. Some familes just dont have the room for everyone to have their own room. Some families all share rooms do to the way that family has always done it. But I would not allow them to be naked and in the same bed. Especially at that age in the same bed and naked, NOT a good thing IMO.
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i dont think its ok cuz stuff might have happened, you should talk to them both about it then tell your nephew parents before it get too out of hand and they all start to freak out thats the sensible thing to do in this kind of situation, leaving it will only make it worsetr and worser, you get me...sort it out quickly
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please call child services right now!
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No totally not ok. They are teenagers! They are either going through puberty or about to. Their parents need to be notified ASAP!
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NO IT NOT OK
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Definitely not, something I'd see only suited if they were age...3? 4? nothing during their school life
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Definitely not, something I'd see only suited if they were age...3? 4? nothing during their school life
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If the boy had a wet dream could the girl get pregnant
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Not good at all. Hormones raging and curiosity is strong. Siblings or not they will be having sex and pregnancy may ensue. Get them out of htere now.
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Sleeping together if they are siblings is fine. Sleeping together naked, at that age, is NOT fine in my opinion. They probably slept together naked as younger children and the practice has just never stopped -so they do not see it as weird (yet). Explain to them it is wrong and take it from there. This is a difficult time for them and new rules need to be put in place.
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I dont think it sounds right. And I think social services wouldnt like it.
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maybe it would be better if their parents would know about this
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To me it would seem even stranger if the parents DID know and obviously hadn't done anything about it.
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Absolutely Not. Mix Gender kids after a certain age should not see each other naked and should not be sharing a room either. Now if they are of the same sex that different. Mix gender no and they dont need to be sleepying nake anymore.
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em, NO! if my nephew told me that i'd be on the phone to his mother asap!
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it is ok to share a bed but not naked. my children see each other naked but they would not share a bed naked with each other it is totaly wrong tell there mother
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