If he has done it in the past he'll do it in the future. What girls don't get is masterbating to guys some of the time is just to relax. There is not alot of emotion to it. Now if he is doing this instead of having sex with you all the time. Damn dump his ass and get on the love train. But if he is having sex with you on a constant basis. And doing this at certain times. Hell i don't know you just have to make up your mind. It's a personal call. I mean spiritually God punished with death for spilling your seed upon the ground. If you're not spiritual but are being sexually satisfied. Who cares. If he's in the shower screamin Jacklyn and your name is Sarah.. I might get worried...

Just open the door when he gets quite. If you can catch him, wait until all of your finds are over and then make a big joke out of telling the story of how you caught him. If he gets made, explain that if he is going to do that he should at least finish on you.

Not unusual for men to masturbate, even when there is a lovely woman around. They sometimes do it just to scratch an itch! LOL But if it has become a habit and he prefers his hand over your body, there is a problem indeed. Go to joint counseling to discuss the issue --he may be addicted to this behavior and it will take a while to cure him. Meanwhile, a little casual self-pleasuring won't hurt either of you.

I hope this comment help you girls. I’m a 45 years old man, married to a wonderful lady for 23 years; I love her to death; we enjoy sex every time we do it; it’s not too often because she’s not always in the best disposition to have sex ; in my case I’m always wanting sex pleasure and she knows it; I masturbate every day in the shower and sometimes 2 or 3 times a day when I have time; the fact that I masturbate does not mean that I don’t love my wife or don’t want to have sex with her, at the contrary, I love to have sex with my wife and sometimes I masturbate over those thoughts , thinking how good is having sex with her; now, she knows that I masturbate all the time and I wish she catches me doing it so I could tell her to get to me and help me out to finish; I believe it is normal for a guy at any age to masturbate and the more private the better I don’t know why; so, don’t worry, when you think or know that your husband or boyfriend is masturbating you should get in the mood and jump on him and give him a BJ and enjoy yourself; he’s gone be grateful; I'd be.

I have caught my FIANCEE several times masterbating. He does it in the bathroom on the toilet, shower, or in the bedroom. I have asked him several times and he says he denies it everytime. I have a webcam and set it up one day when i was at work. I checked it when i got home and noticed that he did on the bed!!! I finally confronted him and he said that when i'm not around he does it, and never when im home because I'm here. WELL, i have heard him in the bathroom, looked underneath the door and watched him, hand movement up and down and slow and fast. He knows i have NO visual proof so when i do bring it up, he denies everything and says i'm looking to pick a fight with him.. always turning it around on me!!! It is constantley on my mind when he is alone in the bedroom with door shut or in the bathroom taking a dump and shower. He takes like half hour or a little longer and everytime he does masterbate. We have been together for 2 years now and we had the best sex at the beginning. Now i'm lucky if iget it 2's a week when i use to get 3 x's a day. I am a very sexual person and always the aggressive one NOW and i don't know what to do anymore. I want him to be honest with me instead of lying, and not sure why he is. I told him i didn't care but i just don't wanna be lied to and no WHITE LIES either...(what she don't know won't hurt her)... that's the same thing as lying. Someone please please please help me. How to talk to him maybe, or give me some answers so i can stop stressing and spying everyday on him!!!!! PLEASE HELP

Of COURSE it's normal. ALL MEN MASTURBATE. ALL. Doesn't matter if they're married or having a lot of sex. It's an auto matic response. And it has NOTHING to do with you, Mrs. Nothing at all. Guys get into their own bodies, and theres no denying they know best what feels best. So get over it, or ask him if you can watch and get turned on.

um, you shouldn't spy on him masturbating. not normal. Why don't you 2 have sex?

If you just run in on him on "accident", that should let you find out. But don't do it more than once! Otherwise, he might get suspicious. Or, try to have a shower WITH him. That might encourage him to have sex with you.