Is it cheating if your boyfriend browses women's ads on personals sites, even though he doesn't have a subscription or a profile?
by 
TiffanyS
ANSWERS: 5
-
Cheating would be anything he hides from you, anything that if he did would get you hurt, angry, disappointed, etc.
-
I just found out that my byfriend answers personal ads and has even posted his own. He says it nothing ever translated to reality, but I am really hurt and feel foolish. We've been together 4 years and were looking at rings. What should I do?
-
I don't know that I would call it cheating, but the behavior is definitely of concern. Why would he be looking at single women's profiles on personal sites if he didn't have an urge to contact them? It is also playing with fire. Why submit yourself to that temptation? Whether or not this is cheating, it is a serious issue that you should be discussing with him.
-
I wouldn't call it cheating, but it is certainly insensitive, inconsiderate and in bad taste. Depending on his motive for browsing, it could lead to cheating, but all on its own, I don't think it is.
-
My boyfriend did this exact thing to me after almost a year of dating. He had his own ad too which made things worse. I broke up with him but we got back together after a week after talking everything over. It's been very hard to fully trust him since then but things did get better over time. I still think about all he did (he says he didnt actualy meet anyone or cheat and i do believe this b/c we were and are together a lot) and it still bothers me , and makes me wonder if I can and should trust him. It's hard to fully let that worry go...so you have to look in your heart and the answer will be there. If he can't prove he won't do it again, then move on.
RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC